Fnord wrote:
Twilightprincess wrote:
Dear_one wrote:
The Twelve Step groups pray: God, give me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.
I’ve always been intrigued by how specific that prayer is. It’s good advice.
Even if a person has no belief in God, it still expresses the personal need for serenity, courage, and wisdom. It also expresses the need to accept, to change, and to know.
Agreed.
No one and no institution has a monopoly on truth...
Except me, of course.
Mona Pereth wrote:
My approach to life: Where possible, seek out fellow oddballs, rather than try to force myself to conform to mainstream standards.
"Oddballs"?
I would say: "Individualists" or "non-conformers" to groupthink.
Dear_one wrote:
To make a decision, it often helps to make a list of the pro and con aspects. If that does not make it clear, I flip a coin. However, I don't obey the coin - I use it to get a gut reaction. If I like the result, fine, but if I don't feel a bit of relief, I'll choose the other way
And when you choose "the other way" and still feel uncomfortable?
I have a saying: If in doubt, cut it out.
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