It's hard not to compare ourselves, but it's a trap worth avoiding. I am not a big socializer either. Most of my adventures to other countries take place in books. Right now, I'm in Russia with The Brothers Karamazov. If I want to try an challenge myself to get out a little, I go to thrift shops or to the library. People tend to leave me alone in those places, a lot of them are 'fringe' people and very accepting of differences. I consider myself a fringe person, so if I have to end up talking with someone, it's usually okay.
I've thought about taking a 'tour' if I went to another country. Someone else could do all the worrying and all I have to do is follow the leader.
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Disagreeing with you doesn't mean I hate you, it just means we disagree.
Neurocognitive exam in May 2019, diagnosed with ASD, Asperger's type in June 2019.