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07 Jul 2019, 2:19 pm

I cannot believe how my life has changed so much over the last 3 months.
I am free … yes free.
I do as I so enjoy to do and that is to Cook; Clean; Drive (I drive a taxi now-er days) and work with Computers.
What am I free of you many ask. I am free of being controlled by psychopaths. A definition of a psychopath is: pathological lying, glib and superficial charm, grandiose sense of self, need for stimulation, cunning and manipulative, lack of remorse or guilt, shallow emotional response and so on and so forth.
I have made a booking to travel to Cairns in Mid July and stay at a small yet very popular backpackers. I will just chill and take a look around Cairns at a leisurely pace (Although I know Cairns well) and meet a few of the locals. :D



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07 Jul 2019, 2:49 pm

Great news, BobAspie!



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07 Jul 2019, 4:06 pm

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Great news, BobAspie!


Thank you IstominFan 8)



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07 Jul 2019, 4:12 pm

Well done and good for you. Nobody deserves living like that :thumright:


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07 Jul 2019, 5:08 pm

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Well done and good for you. Nobody deserves living like that :thumright:


:) to BenderRodriguez



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07 Jul 2019, 7:46 pm

Good for you BobAspie. I hope you have a great time in Cairns.

I have certainly been through similar changes over the years and the lightness that comes from breaking free is exhilarating.


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08 Jul 2019, 2:30 pm

blazingstar wrote:
Good for you BobAspie. I hope you have a great time in Cairns.

I have certainly been through similar changes over the years and the lightness that comes from breaking free is exhilarating.


Good morning blazingstar,
I have no doubt that I will enjoy my stay in Cairns. But if you where there with me; great would go to wonderful. Woo Hoo. :) :) :D :D



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08 Jul 2019, 2:41 pm

I'm very pleased for you. To break free of such people must have been hard, but you did it. :D


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08 Jul 2019, 4:13 pm

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I'm very pleased for you. To break free of such people must have been hard, but you did it. :D


Hello smudge,
Yes it was hard, in fact 29 years it took me to break free of the guy. Aspies (generally speaking) make only 1 friend in life and that is because of the Communication issues.
smudge you joined WP on the 6th September! That is my birth date.
Even though you say your a girl (and I have no doubt) but the image (looks) like a boy.
So now I am confused. :o :o



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08 Jul 2019, 7:52 pm

bobaspie2015 wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
Good for you BobAspie. I hope you have a great time in Cairns.

I have certainly been through similar changes over the years and the lightness that comes from breaking free is exhilarating.


Good morning blazingstar,
I have no doubt that I will enjoy my stay in Cairns. But if you where there with me; great would go to wonderful. Woo Hoo. :) :) :D :D


I've always wanted to travel to Australia. You realize I am female, right?

I never stayed for 29 years, but I have done several series of 10+ years. In retrospect I can't believe how stupid I was to get into these relationships, much less stay on. I am a very slow learner. :D


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09 Jul 2019, 2:20 am

bobaspie2015 wrote:
smudge wrote:
I'm very pleased for you. To break free of such people must have been hard, but you did it. :D


Hello smudge,
Yes it was hard, in fact 29 years it took me to break free of the guy. Aspies (generally speaking) make only 1 friend in life and that is because of the Communication issues.
smudge you joined WP on the 6th September! That is my birth date.
Even though you say your a girl (and I have no doubt) but the image (looks) like a boy.
So now I am confused. :o :o



Yeh, I've never really understood why my images of handsome men tended to trip people up. I just have a thing for handsome men. It used to be David (Kiefer Sutherland) in The Lost Boys.


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09 Jul 2019, 7:02 pm

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bobaspie2015 wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
Good for you BobAspie. I hope you have a great time in Cairns.

I have certainly been through similar changes over the years and the lightness that comes from breaking free is exhilarating.


Good morning blazingstar,
I have no doubt that I will enjoy my stay in Cairns. But if you where there with me; great would go to wonderful. Woo Hoo. :) :) :D :D


I've always wanted to travel to Australia. You realize I am female, right?

I never stayed for 29 years, but I have done several series of 10+ years. In retrospect I can't believe how stupid I was to get into these relationships, much less stay on. I am a very slow learner. :D


Yes I get that you are a girl. :)



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09 Jul 2019, 7:26 pm

bobaspie2015 wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
bobaspie2015 wrote:
blazingstar wrote:
Good for you BobAspie. I hope you have a great time in Cairns.

I have certainly been through similar changes over the years and the lightness that comes from breaking free is exhilarating.


Good morning blazingstar,
I have no doubt that I will enjoy my stay in Cairns. But if you where there with me; great would go to wonderful. Woo Hoo. :) :) :D :D


I've always wanted to travel to Australia. You realize I am female, right?

I never stayed for 29 years, but I have done several series of 10+ years. In retrospect I can't believe how stupid I was to get into these relationships, much less stay on. I am a very slow learner. :D


Yes I get that you are a girl. :)


No one has called me a girl in 50 years or more. How sweet. :heart:


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