Do some women prefer violent men ?

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I know a few old biddies who do.

Let's just say me and their husbands don't support the same football club and these women never seem to talk very much...

I find it hard not to think of them in patronising ways.

Yup, that what I was trying to make the ladies understand in that other thread:



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Most them really have no idea at all.

A strict diet and an equally strict gym routine is what I'm on now. A lifestyle you'll have to be an aspie and not a firefighter to enjoy. Certainly not something one can achieve by just swimming.

What really made take steroids?

I know people who have taken steroid in the gym, and people who have natural good physique from training routine.
I have to take testosterone replacement therapy due to having clinically low testosterone. Which is similar but not the same as illegal steroids.

Some of those guys in the gym will take almost anything to get size. I think that they build such muscles not only for appearance but for strength / power / ego. As some of the bigger guys see themselves as hulks with enormous power.

Myself, i come from more of a recreational martial art background. And have met all sorts of people over the years.
To be honest, some guys get really good natural but lean physique simply from training in martial arts every day.
Especially the guys who do MMA or mix Gracie (Brazilian Jiu Jitsu) with a striking martial art such as Muay Thai or even Karate. This is because the striking martial arts burn off the calories, and the grappling martial arts burn off calories but also build bulkier but not excessive muscles.

And again to get the best results, you really do have to train 6 days a week if you are able.
I remember when i did, i ripped down to lean while at the same time was muscular without any gym work.
That was training jiu jitsu every day.

I would say that diet is also a really important factor. lean protein, whole foods, fruit, veg, loads of water.

As for the guys who are really into the steroids, i have to say, i find their obsession with size a bit strange.
But i guess, doing scientific martial arts, if it comes to a battle with another man (which I generally don't look for)
having a back ground in scientific martial arts, means you rely less on bulky power, and more on technique, stamina and cardio fitness.

Personally, i think that most the big guys look crazy big. I also think that to sustain that size it is extremely expensive in diet and supplements alone, let alone illegal stuff....

i am not sure how attractive woman even find that kind of hulk physique. Nothing against it as each to their own.
but just out of interest. I guess gym girls love muscles.

Yes. The internet is full of them.

Realizing that a lot of the stuff the media says about steroids is BS certainly contributed. Some of the most peaceful people I've met are hardcore steroid users. Furthermore, binge drinking every weekend until you throw up (like almost all young Scandinavians do) or smoking will harm you more than even large amounts of steroids will do.

Also, reaching a plateau in my progress and falling in love with a girl didn't make me want to take them any less, to put it that way.

CockneyRebel is right: what a poorly worded and thought out question. Putting aside that the overwhelming majority of the time the underlying premise of the question is somewhere between sexist and misogynist.

I would love to say more but it was all basically covered by Kurgan Twilight and several others by Page 2 so there's not anything else I can think to add. Though I will say financial reasons in this economy is a big one along w/psychological/power issues. I would guess the number of women who are trapped in abusive relationships of one kind or another in the US is over a million maybe several million. And this also happens in queer relationships too if less often.

As a cyclist, may I please draw a minor distinction between that & progress? I understand that your goals are different with this stuff but I don't see that as the same blood, sweat & tears as pure athleticism.

In other words I think you're alright but gimme a f¿£¢®™¥ing break man.

As a casual athlete, this thread is just making me sad & thus it feels lacking in perspective. I think this line of questions ignores the simple fact that people are just strong in general.

Also can we stop implying a direct correlation between physical inadequacy & ASD in all instances?

I don't think violence is as simple as this question implies.

Some dog owners & experts say that neutered dogs are more docile & more affectionate. I've done a bit of research on meds to lower sex drive & the meds I looked at most are antiandrogens which block testosterone. I've read posts & articles by at least a few guys who've said they were happier & less frustrated & less angry in general than they were before they started taking the meds. That's been my experience taking those types of meds too. Now I guess it's possible that those guys were frustrated by having a higher sex drive when they started the meds & that's why they feel better mentally on them.

Getting back to the original topic, my 1st girlfriend had been involved with a guy who's been violent, IDK if he was to her but he did take sexual advantage of her as well. She was into drugs some at the time & he was her dealer & sometimes gave her freebies. They had some kind of relationship but may not officially been boyfriend & girlfriend. That stuff had happened before I knew her. She did occasionally hang-out with him while we were together which I majorly disliked & encouraged her not to. Some may think that I was controlling & jealous but I know it was about me being protective of her cuz I cared about her more than she cared about herself & I did NOT want her to get hurt or used again.