Were you bullied in school?

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Were you ever bullied in school by others like mean girls?

yes, a lot.

Yes. But I was bullied more by boys than girls.

Not much. There just one girl who always try to bully me. She had like one friend, and I had at least 10, so I wasn't bothered about whatever nasty thing she said. My confidence was high, so criticism tend to bounce off me.

Yes,

Constantly, by both girls and boys.

I was typically bullied in the way of being transparent. Not like I was even being ignored but that I wasn't even seen. There were times I became "visible" and other bullying or just mean things were said at those times.

I'd say boys were more inclined to say something hurtful, while the girls were more passive aggressive.

Not too much. More just every now and then.

Any boy is a punk who bullies girls.

I was bullied by many boys and a few girls.

I would bet that at least 75% of all WP members have been bullied.

I was bullied by girls when I was around 14, and this caused me to hide in school libraries during my breaks. I started to live "In a Book" for social avoidance and emotional self-protection.

Off and on but it was not like the serious bullying that you see in "Odd Girl Out."

For me, more situations were teasing like in 1st and 7th grade, I was a big Disney Tycoon.
1. In 1st grade, they chanted "Cinderella's Ugly," because I like Cinderella
2. In 7th Grade, I liked the Lion King so they taunted me with "Simba's Dead."
3. One time one of my peers had the nerve to call me up and tell me she wanted to talk to me about a new "Lion King book" and left a fake phone number for my mom but I knew what she was up and didn't give in

A few other people tried to convince me that such and such wanted to date me which I took seriously, but some adults told me that they were just picking on me. Again, it didn't bother me.

During my super senior year, which was my last year, I had a few students do things to me and then I would rat them out and then the bullies would cover it up and then call me "Crazy."

That said, the worst bullying came from three "Friends" who I grew to trust. In 11th grade, they pulled a number of nasty things on me.
1. They often got together and left me out. Then they would brag about it afterward. "Guess what? Me and our two other friends did this and that on the weekend. When I found out why, I was told that two of them didn't like me.
2. They led me around about riding with them to the prom in a limo as "The 5th wheel" and then took the invitation away by coming up with a ridiculous excuse
3. They were nice to my face but often lied about me behind my back

Yes, by boys.
Girls were just a bunch of cowards who did not bully me but did not stand up for me either so even though they did not bully me directly there were as guilty

Yes. Mostly by boys.

Girls are either too scared or took pity on me instead.

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Yes. Age 4 to 6. Then I seemed to be ok as the person then became a best friend... But then age about 12 he and a friend turned on me... then larer bullied at ages 13 to 14 when a few set on me at the same time. Usually I find myself bullied by a several people at the same time.
Always bullied on and off inbetween these to a lesser extent. (Not serious bullying. The type I would just run away from. Not the type who would go out of the aay to make my life difficult like the other more serious bullying would do).
Then when in college at the age of about the latter half of age 17 to 18 my mask fell off and I became bullied. At one point the whole class of about 25 persons decided to pick on me at the same time. I decided to make my escape. I stood on the desk. I saw a route where I could run desk to desk and smash through the classroom window. It was only single pane. I could then fall i to the big tree down below (The classroom was at a helight of about three storeys high as it bridged over a road below) and climb down to make my escape. I was just getting my balance to do this when the teacher came back in and told me off. He didn't ask why I was standing on the desk. Thwy ehaved when they thought they would get into trouble. But me being quiet and shy never told them what had been going on like the many times they would drag me trying to drown me in the toilets or things like that. Usual stuff. It would usually take six or eight of them to do it as when I panicked they couldn't handle me.
I failed my exams as there seemed littlw point of trying to study. I didn't care. I was just trying to survive. It was often a race to leave the classrooms as quickly as I could, unlock my bicycle and go before they had a chance to pick on me. Once i was on my bicycle I was safe. Is one reason why I always look to where exits are and never go in a room where my exit is blocked off. I avoid all crowded places if I can. What happens is something happens to peoples minds collectively, whee if one person feels like bullying you, all the other peoples minds also link up and suddenly you could have hundreds of people against you... Is like some sort of switch? Is why I always make sure if I go to a crowded place I have escape routes, just incase.

Yes, mostly by girls. I had knock down fist fights - this was the 70's/ early 80's when teachers were ok with you settling your issues like that (they'd chew you out later, for the record). After it was proved I was not afraid to tangle, the bullying turned to ostracizing.

I was bullied on and off at high school, but probably not as bad as some Aspies here. I was mostly bullied by girls more than boys.

I was socially rejected by some of the other girls in my class, ganged up on by some of my cousin's female friends, picked on when walking home from school, and had my own friends playing bitchy mind games with me.
All this happened over the 5-year period I spent at high school.
I didn't really get bullied when I was little, but it might have been because I was rather hyper and loud in the playground and I was never seen on my own, plus I enjoyed playing imaginative games with other girls. But socialising and making friends got more challenging at high school, because nobody plays imaginative games any more and kids develop more self-awareness and your social status is very important.