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xxZeromancerlovexx
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06 Nov 2019, 8:58 pm

Jude Dudley passed way in late June. I’ll never forget the one thing that never judged or hurt my feelings.


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06 Nov 2019, 8:59 pm

I once had a best friend who was a Persian cat.



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07 Nov 2019, 6:40 am

I am so sorry for your loss. I was devastated when my first cat passed away. She was white with one blue eye and one green eye. Jude Dudley will live in your heart forever.


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07 Nov 2019, 7:45 am

I'm sorry for your loss. :(

I lost my cat earlier in the year- I'd had him over 10 years and he was like my best friend. The unconditional love you get from an animal is wonderful, and it took a while but I can now look back at all the good memories I have of him.
Do you think you'll get another pet? I thought I wouldn't at first, but I now have another cat who has his own personality and is like another best friend. :heart:



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08 Nov 2019, 2:12 pm

:(


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08 Nov 2019, 9:28 pm

I’m sorry too. :(



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08 Nov 2019, 9:38 pm

I'm terribly sad for you. My cat is also on his last legs and may die very soon. It is very hard to bear.



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09 Nov 2019, 12:13 am

I am so very sorry for the loneliness and grief you are feeling.
Please do not hesitate to adopt a cat from an animal shelter or pound; the love and gratitude will help you so much, and you will save a life.
You were the center of your cat’s world and never doubt that she knew how much he loved you.


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09 Nov 2019, 12:55 am

Cats and horses are probably the only animals that understand Aspie-dom. Sorry your cat has died... :(


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09 Nov 2019, 1:49 am

My friend recently lost his as well - we knew him for 13 years. I'll visit my big ole kitten at my dad's place for you this weekend. She's my best friend anyway.

Just remember all this really means is that a cat or kitten somewhere nearby already needed somewhere to live too.


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09 Nov 2019, 6:33 am

As a cat lover, and one who's had three cats during his childhood, I'm really sorry for your loss. :( :cry:



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09 Nov 2019, 10:43 pm

Sweet Pea hugs


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09 Nov 2019, 11:33 pm

I know how you feel, I lost my first cat, she was my best friend & a dog was my best friend too. I have another cat now.


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10 Nov 2019, 4:40 am

I'm sorry for your loss of your lovely cat.
My cat passed away in the summer and it was a huge loss for my whole family because we had her for 20 years and she was very sociable, friendly, vocal and gentle. She never scratched or bitten a human in her life, not even the vet!


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10 Nov 2019, 2:49 pm

Joe90 wrote:
I'm sorry for your loss of your lovely cat.
My cat passed away in the summer and it was a huge loss for my whole family because we had her for 20 years and she was very sociable, friendly, vocal and gentle. She never scratched or bitten a human in her life, not even the vet!



My first cat was 23 years old, she die few days before her birthday, her vet keep telling my mom, I kept her alive, she had kidney problems & she was always underweight.


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10 Nov 2019, 3:13 pm

So sorry for your loss :( Have had feline companions for all of my adult life. The toughest part is watching them age and pass on, or to decide to put one down to ease endless suffering. I current partner "Little Dude" is a treasure who is cherished and pampered.


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