Joined: 11 Jun 2013 Gender: Non-binary Posts: 26,635 Location: Australia
21 Jun 2020, 10:57 pm
nick007 wrote:
I think the pop singer Ke$ha wrote a song about guys like him
So many things to say, here.
I don't know what she is like in real life, but in the song, she is a "Heather". Whatever the case, she is simply exploitative, in regard to the song production. <shrug> I am sure she would have a similar disdain for someone outside of her physical "league". An expression which may apply here is "Airhead" or "bimbo".
The song is quite reprehensible. And it has no intellectualism associated with it either. But young people are known for lacking compassion and comprehension of the actuality of life's parameters. I can imagine some young women, and some young men, taunting older men, singing that song in their face.
The fact is: Older men do find attractive younger women, errr, attractive. But they usually keep it to themselves, not only for fear of social ridicule, such as this but because they have the realisation that consciously, subconsciously or unconsciously, the mating game is ultimately all about finding a suitable partner who gives the best chance of producing a viable offspring, using a heterosexual context.
Joined: 11 Jun 2013 Gender: Non-binary Posts: 26,635 Location: Australia
21 Jun 2020, 11:08 pm
kraftiekortie wrote:
They got divorced. He’s not adulterous.
18-20 year old girls are probably too young for a 65 year old man to kanoodle with.
Some more mentally mature and entrepreneurial young women would consider a "Sugar Daddy" a very satisfying arrangement, One which would be beneficial until they are ready to settle down and have a family.
In the movie "Diamonds are a girl's best friend" (I believe), the character played by Marilyn Monroe made the observation that a woman's beauty is equivalent to a man's wealth. Both parties can gain from a mutually satisfying arrangement.
Joined: 11 Jun 2013 Gender: Non-binary Posts: 26,635 Location: Australia
21 Jun 2020, 11:13 pm
Benjamin the Donkey wrote:
Borromeo wrote:
The problem is, he's a creepy adulterous old guy cruising for girls with daddy issues.
How is he a adulterous? He's divorced!
Casual ageism is amazingly acceptable. Would you say a man was " a creepy black guy cruising for girls with race issues"?
Mate, Don't let the truth get in the way of a good ridicule. Most people like being sanctimonious. Part of "The Human Condition", as "Ray Barone" would say.