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23 Jun 2020, 9:51 am

I'm asking for someone I care about who suffers from severe depression and self esteem. Traditional therapies don't seem to work with them, maybe because of Alexithymia and interoception issues. I feel like there should be something out there for us but I can't find it. Help.



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23 Jun 2020, 10:27 am

I am finding AEDP therapy and SSP integrated listening extremely beneficial. I was literally given a new zest for living and healthier sense of self, I was totally burned out and traumatised (not autistic). I will post links for you in a sec.


https://youtu.be/PIZOsE6kM3E
Diana Fosha explains AEDP


https://www.facebook.com/MaximeClarity/ ... 371555980/

https://aedpinstitute.org/about-aedp/

https://integratedlistening.com/ssp-saf ... -protocol/

https://integratedlistening.com/unyte-i ... uidelines/

I hope this may be helpful, I feel as though I am being recalibrated emotionally, I am also experiencing moments of joy that have been absent for what seems like eons.


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24 Jun 2020, 10:21 am

Severe depression is like hell on earth ... especially if you’re treatment resistant. There’s always hope with treatments like TMS(which are non-drug related) for extreme cases, but otherwise, having a complete break from the usual day to day life, absorbing yourself in an interest(be it art, music, watching tv shows/movies) and trying to get yourself out in nature for walks, can be of help. Some of the best therapies involve things like swimming(even if just sitting in a pool/hot tub for a bit), cycling, listening to music, watching funny clips on YouTube or cute animal videos. The aim is to break the cycle of hopelessness and alter the mood.

Sometimes, just being told “There is hope. Your life will not remain this way forever” can bring a severely depressed person to tears, which paves the way for progress to be made, and options to be considered. Many believe that their state of being has no hope of changing, which is untrue. Severe depression, and that with panic attacks might seem unrelenting and hopeless to the person experiencing it. If PTSD is also part of the equation, being able to relive/revisit the events that caused the downturn in emotional health(trauma/depression) importantly, with the emotion removed, can help a person to view it from a rational perspective, enabling the mind to overcome the roadblock which produces the fear and ability to overcome. It’s the emotion we feel, when experiencing trauma or any negative events, that effects our ability to move on and overcome. It’s about breaking it down, seeing it for what it is, and progressing from there. xx



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24 Jun 2020, 11:21 am

My best therapist mostly listened with interest, and answered my questions about "normal." We were both studying my case - she had no strong agenda.
Try to get your friend moving. I know a guy who bought a machete to get free shipping on the rest of an order, and then got to enjoy using it to clear his overgrown paths. I think the exercise added many years to his life.