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08 Jul 2020, 1:43 pm

I tried looking up the incident but this was mid 1980's and pre internet.Nothing found on the subject.

I'm not sure I know the exact spelling of the teachers name,we knew him as Mr Sockul but not sure about spelling.


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08 Jul 2020, 1:47 pm

although the band teacher incident was in the 70s i'm still afraid of printing his name, he might be alive and sue me.



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08 Jul 2020, 2:10 pm

auntblabby wrote:
although the band teacher incident was in the 70s i'm still afraid of printing his name, he might be alive and sue me.
If you put it on youtube I'd be more worried,not likely to be noticed here.


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09 Jul 2020, 1:04 am

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Would posters be sort of saying it was kind of ok if it it was a male teacher and a young female student? I doubt it. I thought this was supposed to be #MeToo era, silly me.


I imagine there would be outrage followed by a lynching if a male teacher got out of jailed and married the school girl he committed statutory rape on.



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09 Jul 2020, 7:05 am

Mary Kay wasn’t treated too kindly. She got years in prison. A male would have been treated similarly.



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09 Jul 2020, 7:11 am

gut cancer is a horrible way to go, would not wish that upon anybody.



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12 Jul 2020, 9:01 am

Karma came back to that woman and bit her in the butt.


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12 Jul 2020, 11:16 am

CockneyRebel wrote:
Karma came back to that woman and bit her in the butt.

Karma tis a b***h eyh! 8)


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14 Jul 2020, 2:25 am



Can this song be rearranged as a funeral dirge? :clown:


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16 Jul 2020, 4:27 pm

She had a husband and children when she began a sexual molestation or relationship with a 13-year-old.
Their heartbreak and humiliation have not been mentioned.
When she was released from prison, she went to the teen-aged boy, not to her kids or (possibly ex) husband.
They matter.
Their feelings matter.
They did nothing wrong and were hurt badly and were betrayed by someone who just decided that she wanted someone else, and was willing to leave her children and husband behind.
That is not the way you treat those who love and trust you.


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16 Jul 2020, 4:44 pm

Sylkat wrote:
That is not the way you treat those who love and trust you.


Paedophiles (like narcissists) lack empathy. It is a mental condition where the person is unable to curb their desires (like an addiction or craving).



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16 Jul 2020, 5:22 pm

Sylkat wrote:
She had a husband and children when she began a sexual molestation or relationship with a 13-year-old.
Their heartbreak and humiliation have not been mentioned.
When she was released from prison, she went to the teen-aged boy, not to her kids or (possibly ex) husband.
They matter.
Their feelings matter.
They did nothing wrong and were hurt badly and were betrayed by someone who just decided that she wanted someone else, and was willing to leave her children and husband behind.
That is not the way you treat those who love and trust you.



If the movie was accurate, the husband cut her off from him and their kids.


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16 Jul 2020, 6:16 pm

I did not watch the movie, followed the news occasionally; I do not blame the husband if he chose to completely cut her out of the lives of himself and his children.
They deserve a fresh start; hope they got legal name changes and once that was in
effect, I hope they moved away.
They deserved better from someone who was supposed to love them and put them first in life.


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16 Jul 2020, 7:09 pm

My guess is that if they sought counselling for what happened then the family would have counselled that their mother/wife was suffering from a mental illness that they need to let her go so she can sought out her life.