Lying to get a girlfriend

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16 Jul 2020, 12:57 pm

Actually...usually at work, or on subway trains. I answered a newspaper ad once.

I had a few hookups, more short-term and long-term relationships. Mostly in my 20s. I only had long-term relationships in my 30s, 40s, 50s. I’m 5 1/2 months from reaching 60.

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16 Jul 2020, 8:17 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:

Actually...usually at work, or on subway trains. I answered a newspaper ad once.
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I posted a newspaper ad once in my 20s. I got no replies.

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16 Jul 2020, 9:24 pm

I probably wouldn’t have gotten any responses, either.

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17 Jul 2020, 1:58 am

cyberdad wrote:

Teach51 wrote:

Then we must be carefully selective. Being in a toxic relationship is as harmful as ingesting poison. Why would we do that for a fleeting sexual thrill? (This i a question I address myself with daily in all situations, is this person contributing to my sense of well being or should I avoid them.
The over exposure of the porn industry on the internet has completely depersonalised the sexual experience, creating addictions and has cleaved a chasm between sexuality and commitment and emotional attachment. It will never lead to fulfilling, caring relationships and will always leave people feeling empty and unfulfilled. The porn industry brings out the worst in men and gives them a false misogynist representation of sexual interaction.
Porn use should be monitored like medication, 10 mins× 2 per day :lol:

The issue of whether short flings are toxic is subjective and anecdotal. Men certainly benefit more from long term relationships so agree that's preferable.

Men always masturbate regardless of porn. Imagination

Back in my day, it was considered a sin to masturbate.
I felt so, so guilty,
But I still did it. :mrgreen:

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17 Jul 2020, 2:16 am

Pepe wrote:

Back in my day, it was considered a sin to masturbate.
I felt so, so guilty,
But I still did it. :mrgreen:

It's Friday Pepe

Must time for some Dave Allen :lol:

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17 Jul 2020, 2:26 am

Itsa2waystreet2 wrote:

Hi,
So I had a girlfriend but broke up with her since I was no longer attracted to her (she was fat, while I’m skinny and fit). I want to find some hot NT girls to date in the meantime. I was considering lying to find one since Asperger’s is a deal-breaker with most women.

I’m planning to photoshop my Tinder pics to remove some blemishes, lie about doing NT things (playing sports, achievements) and lie about what I do at my job and my income. I know lying is wrong, but I’m sick of only attracting ugly, homely looking girls since I’m much more attractive than that.

Would this work?

So why did you get with her if you were so disgusted with her in the first place? I am female but my boyfriend is a chubby guy...and I knew that before I got with him. I certainly didn't expect him to get skinny I guess I just don't get how you ended up being her boyfriend if you were so un-attracted to her on the basis of her weight. LIke why did you even become her boyfriend then?

Also if you have autism, it may work for a time but....well it is hard for autistic people to keep up a charade too long. So could work for a time but may not have the results that you want.

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17 Jul 2020, 3:43 am

cyberdad wrote:

Pepe wrote:

Back in my day, it was considered a sin to masturbate.
I felt so, so guilty,
But I still did it. :mrgreen:

It's Friday Pepe

Must time for some Dave Allen :lol:

He was great. May he R.I.P.

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17 Jul 2020, 5:43 am

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kraftiekortie wrote:

Actually...usually at work, or on subway trains. I answered a newspaper ad once.
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I posted a newspaper ad once in my 20s. I got no replies.

Perhaps a billboard would be more effective.

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17 Jul 2020, 6:52 am

That probably would help.

But suppose the guy didn’t look like a lumberjack, and actually doesn’t own a saw?

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17 Jul 2020, 7:14 am

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The truth shall set you free........................
Of course not. A person can be attractive and still be a prize a$$hole, is that your ambition in life?

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17 Jul 2020, 9:14 am

kraftiekortie wrote:

That probably would help.

But suppose the guy didn’t look like a lumberjack, and actually doesn’t own a saw?

Who the hell wants to go out with a guy carrying a chainsaw? EEP!

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17 Jul 2020, 9:16 am

Teach51 wrote:

Itsa2waystreet2 wrote:

The truth shall set you free........................
Of course not. A person can be attractive and still be a prize a$$hole, is that your ambition in life?

OI! We handsome A-holes have feelings too, ya know. :evil:

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17 Jul 2020, 11:57 am

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I am curious now... how old were you when you married your current wife?

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17 Jul 2020, 12:30 pm

I was 34. In 1995. My wife has been my only “relationship.”

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17 Jul 2020, 7:17 pm

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I was 34. In 1995. My wife has been my only “relationship.”

So the relationships you mention in your 40s and 50s, are your wife (like you're not poly, are you?)

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