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Itsa2waystreet2
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08 Jul 2020, 6:24 pm

Hi,
So I had a girlfriend but broke up with her since I was no longer attracted to her (she was fat, while I’m skinny and fit). I want to find some hot NT girls to date in the meantime. I was considering lying to find one since Asperger’s is a deal-breaker with most women.

I’m planning to photoshop my Tinder pics to remove some blemishes, lie about doing NT things (playing sports, achievements) and lie about what I do at my job and my income. I know lying is wrong, but I’m sick of only attracting ugly, homely looking girls since I’m much more attractive than that.

Would this work?



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08 Jul 2020, 6:33 pm

Probably not.



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08 Jul 2020, 6:47 pm

Wtf.


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08 Jul 2020, 6:59 pm

Yeah, whatever, mate


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08 Jul 2020, 7:00 pm

The problem with lies is that you have to maintain them.

If you start dating, it will become apparent you lied very quickly.



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08 Jul 2020, 7:34 pm

Don't. do. it.

If you wanna hook up, go for it. But only if the girl only wants to hook up as well.

If you're as attractive as you say, then why should you photoshop your pictures? :scratch:

Work on your social skills, or leave it. No one deserves to have a liar in their life. This is so selfish.



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08 Jul 2020, 7:40 pm

Love is a 2-way street :)



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08 Jul 2020, 8:08 pm

Well this sounds like a total piss-take, but just in case you're serious.....

NO.

Relationships are built on trust.

No trust = no relationship.



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08 Jul 2020, 9:29 pm

dorkseid wrote:
The problem with lies is that you have to maintain them.

If you start dating, it will become apparent you lied very quickly.


This.

If you just want hook ups, it shouldn't really matter how much income you have or that you are ASD; you just have to be attractive, which you said you are. :shrug:


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09 Jul 2020, 12:31 am

No one cares.



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09 Jul 2020, 12:32 am

The chick who was lied to would care....

If the OP doesn’t respond, I would assume his account is a troll account.



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09 Jul 2020, 12:33 am

that1weirdgrrrl wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
The problem with lies is that you have to maintain them.

If you start dating, it will become apparent you lied very quickly.


This.

If you just want hook ups, it shouldn't really matter how much income you have or that you are ASD; you just have to be attractive, which you said you are. :shrug:

I dont know I dabbled in the idea for nit and women seeking hookups also demanded guy have a good job., perhaps so they can get rid to his place? Probably wouldn’t want to hook up with me even if I looked like brad Pitt if it mean coming to my shared house in the bus,
I found they had the same requirements as for dating but added stuff about penis size.
Maybe Incase it goes from hookup to relationship?
I dont know p, guess you won’t either.

I’d maybe consider lying if I could pull it off.
If I ever win the lottery I’d lie about it. Make up some job.


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09 Jul 2020, 12:36 am

I’ve met hookups on subway trains. They didn’t care if I didn’t drive (I had no license at that time).



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09 Jul 2020, 12:36 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
The chick who was lied to would care....

Some have said in other threads it’d be fine. That people lie all the time. Women lie about their looks , men lie about their income.

I do think most people do small lies. Pretending they into something they not.

My issue is his attitude towards fat women.
I wish I could date some fat woman. All that matters to me is if she’s nice and actually likes me.


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09 Jul 2020, 12:39 am

kraftiekortie wrote:
I’ve met hookups on subway trains. They didn’t care if I didn’t drive (I had no license at that time).

Thsts nyc where 90% of people ride the subway.
Out west most people don’t use public transportation. We probably have less in a month then what nyc would have in a day rid public transport. Most everyone has a car. Each parent has a car, each kid gets a car at 16.
West coast is spread out, unlike east coast.
You have twice as many people in nyc then our whole state.

Cars are a requirement out west.


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09 Jul 2020, 12:43 am

I never misrepresented myself to any woman. They always knew I made little money, had no car, and was, in general, probably not a great provider for some future kid.