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19 Aug 2020, 5:14 pm

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Not having to worry about being shot when pulled over by police, not having people going to the other side of the street when I walk by in my business attire because they think I am going to mug them is not privilege, what it is, is not being discriminated against. Thinking these are unfair privileges is looking at a real problem the wrong way.
By analogy, does that also mean that having been born with attractive features and traits is not an unfair advantage of popular people?  If so, does the "I can't get a date" crowd know this?



There is also beauty privilege. People who are very attractive will not understand the struggles average looking people get.


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19 Aug 2020, 6:04 pm

League_Girl wrote:
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Not having to worry about being shot when pulled over by police, not having people going to the other side of the street when I walk by in my business attire because they think I am going to mug them is not privilege, what it is, is not being discriminated against. Thinking these are unfair privileges is looking at a real problem the wrong way.
By analogy, does that also mean that having been born with attractive features and traits is not an unfair advantage of popular people?  If so, does the "I can't get a date" crowd know this?



There is also beauty privilege. People who are very attractive will not understand the struggles average looking people get.


I know plenty of 'average' looking people who put attractive-looking people down all the time. Especially females. My brother's fiance is like this.


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19 Aug 2020, 6:13 pm

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Fnord wrote:
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Not having to worry about being shot when pulled over by police, not having people going to the other side of the street when I walk by in my business attire because they think I am going to mug them is not privilege, what it is, is not being discriminated against. Thinking these are unfair privileges is looking at a real problem the wrong way.
By analogy, does that also mean that having been born with attractive features and traits is not an unfair advantage of popular people?  If so, does the "I can't get a date" crowd know this?



There is also beauty privilege. People who are very attractive will not understand the struggles average looking people get.


I know plenty of 'average' looking people who put attractive-looking people down all the time. Especially females. My brother's fiance is like this.


Maybe they are jealous. :wink:


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19 Aug 2020, 6:42 pm

League_Girl wrote:
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Not having to worry about being shot when pulled over by police, not having people going to the other side of the street when I walk by in my business attire because they think I am going to mug them is not privilege, what it is, is not being discriminated against. Thinking these are unfair privileges is looking at a real problem the wrong way.
By analogy, does that also mean that having been born with attractive features and traits is not an unfair advantage of popular people?  If so, does the "I can't get a date" crowd know this?



There is also beauty privilege. People who are very attractive will not understand the struggles average looking people get.

Being born with great looks is an advantage. I do not think it is a privilege. I am short for a guy. That has definitely been a disadvantage that at times has led to bullying and discrimination against yours truly. "Normal" sized people are not privileged. The problem has been an unfair negative treatment of me, not unfair positive or normal treatment for them.


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19 Aug 2020, 6:47 pm

I’m a shrimp myself :P



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19 Aug 2020, 6:48 pm

League_Girl wrote:
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Fnord wrote:
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Not having to worry about being shot when pulled over by police, not having people going to the other side of the street when I walk by in my business attire because they think I am going to mug them is not privilege, what it is, is not being discriminated against. Thinking these are unfair privileges is looking at a real problem the wrong way.
By analogy, does that also mean that having been born with attractive features and traits is not an unfair advantage of popular people?  If so, does the "I can't get a date" crowd know this?



There is also beauty privilege. People who are very attractive will not understand the struggles average looking people get.


I know plenty of 'average' looking people who put attractive-looking people down all the time. Especially females. My brother's fiance is like this.


Maybe they are jealous. :wink:


I think that's exactly it lol. But is it considered sexist to acknowledge this? :wink:

Off topic but Greek Mythology was filled with stories of beautiful women who were subjected to the wrath of Goddesses
for daring to be too pretty. Are females just naturally like that to any woman they view as a 'threat' or is it the result of a misogynistic society that has beat this idea of pretty girls being a 'threat' into women's heads for centuries? :chin:

Anyways I'm sorry for going off topic again. :oops:


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19 Aug 2020, 6:53 pm

I’m not jealous of “attractive” people.

I yam what I am.



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19 Aug 2020, 6:57 pm

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lol, he is against cancel culture but engages in it on his own because he doesn't like that they have banned his MAGA crap. The irony is so hilarious.

There is a subtle difference between a boycott and "cancel culture":
Under a boycott, the company which has been boycotted is considered "redeemed" once the action(s) giving rise to it have been corrected, and things can return to their past status.
Under "Cancel Culture", there is no redemption possible and so the "cancellation" comtinues into perpetuity.

A subtle difference, easy to miss (whether accidentally or intentionally).



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20 Aug 2020, 1:40 am

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I’m a shrimp myself :P

Nom nom nom :chef:


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20 Aug 2020, 1:48 am

League_Girl wrote:
Fnord wrote:
ASPartOfMe wrote:
Not having to worry about being shot when pulled over by police, not having people going to the other side of the street when I walk by in my business attire because they think I am going to mug them is not privilege, what it is, is not being discriminated against. Thinking these are unfair privileges is looking at a real problem the wrong way.
By analogy, does that also mean that having been born with attractive features and traits is not an unfair advantage of popular people?  If so, does the "I can't get a date" crowd know this?



There is also beauty privilege. People who are very attractive will not understand the struggles average looking people get.


Average people don't get the struggles the truly ugly face. :lol:


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20 Aug 2020, 1:58 am

In ancient Greece, there was a woman on trial accused som unspecified but death-worthy crime. Her defense was to strip and basically say " Look how pretty I am. I am clearly favoured by Afrodite!" That worked.


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20 Aug 2020, 2:07 am

funeralxempire wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
Fnord wrote:
ASPartOfMe wrote:
Not having to worry about being shot when pulled over by police, not having people going to the other side of the street when I walk by in my business attire because they think I am going to mug them is not privilege, what it is, is not being discriminated against. Thinking these are unfair privileges is looking at a real problem the wrong way.
By analogy, does that also mean that having been born with attractive features and traits is not an unfair advantage of popular people?  If so, does the "I can't get a date" crowd know this?



There is also beauty privilege. People who are very attractive will not understand the struggles average looking people get.


Average people don't get the struggles the truly ugly face. :lol:


I guess there is average looking privilege. I have also heard of normal height privilege. I learned the struggles short people and tall people have to face. :lol:


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20 Aug 2020, 2:10 am

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In ancient Greece, there was a woman on trial accused som unspecified but death-worthy crime. Her defense was to strip and basically say " Look how pretty I am. I am clearly favoured by Afrodite!" That worked.


Turns out the goddess of beauty has always been black. :mrgreen:


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20 Aug 2020, 3:29 am

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lol, he is against cancel culture but engages in it on his own because he doesn't like that they have banned his MAGA crap. The irony is so hilarious.

There is a subtle difference between a boycott and "cancel culture":
Under a boycott, the company which has been boycotted is considered "redeemed" once the action(s) giving rise to it have been corrected, and things can return to their past status.
Under "Cancel Culture", there is no redemption possible and so the "cancellation" comtinues into perpetuity.

A subtle difference, easy to miss (whether accidentally or intentionally).

I am pretty sure such subtle differences are lost on Trump.


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20 Aug 2020, 4:25 am

funeralxempire wrote:
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In ancient Greece, there was a woman on trial accused som unspecified but death-worthy crime. Her defense was to strip and basically say " Look how pretty I am. I am clearly favoured by Afrodite!" That worked.


Turns out the goddess of beauty has always been black. :mrgreen:


Hey now, not everyone from Aphrica is black.


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20 Aug 2020, 4:27 am

Everybody is lucky in some ways, unlucky in others.

Privileged in some ways. Oppressed in others.

I’m white, Jewish, autistic, short, college graduate in a clerical job.....