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League_Girl
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12 Sep 2020, 10:41 am

I just got accused of faking my emotions, why? Because I am stessed out about what has been going on.

I am so sick of my problems not being taken seriously and because I didn't look disabled enough as a child, my parents had to fight for my IEP to be followed and I had to face abuse at school from the staff.

I also feel I still dont get taken seriously enough about my problems and fuxk anyone who wants to dismiss them. I just cancel them now, they're dead to me.

Thus website is a f*****g joke if you ard not taken seriously and i have faced abuse here in the past because people think my issues are fake.

I'm done with this place. I'm upset. Good bye.

And one more thing,

STOP PROJECTING NT LANGUAGE ONTO ME DANN IT. WHAT I SAY IS WHAT I EXACTLY MEAN. STOP PROJECTING. STOP TWISTING MY WORDS. :x


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12 Sep 2020, 10:50 am

:( *Hugs* to League_Girl :heart:



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12 Sep 2020, 10:52 am

I don’t feel that way about you, LeagueGirl.

You’re a veteran here. Your departure would be a big loss.

This SHOULD be a support forum.



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12 Sep 2020, 10:56 am

Where did you get accused of “faking” your emotions?

If somebody accused you of that, they’re trolling.



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12 Sep 2020, 11:16 am

Sorry you had that experience.

If you leave, you will be missed.



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12 Sep 2020, 11:19 am

(((League_girl)))

I’ve never not taken you seriously. I don’t go to all the subfora, so I have not seen your problem, but that doesn’t mean it isn’t real.

I hope you feel better soon. :heart: It sounds like you are in a rotten place.


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12 Sep 2020, 11:28 am

League_Girl, I'm sorry if it was one of my posts that upset you. My sense of humour can be irreverent at times or what I call tangental humour where I go off in a direction which wasn't meant by the poster.

When I joined this forum I set myself a rule of trying not to upset anyone but this has slipped a couple of times.

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12 Sep 2020, 11:28 am

I hope it's not cos you think I find you patronising.

I don't find you patronising.

I find you nice.


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12 Sep 2020, 3:55 pm

Granted, I don’t post much here, or on AutismFourms, let alone FakeBook.

The last time I posted on the Haven was for a long-standing issue I have with PTSD, due to issues I had with 4 different Families that had daughters and were physically, mentally and sexually abusive when I was in high school (45 years ago).

I don’t blame LeagueGirl for calling it quits here. I’m ready to tell WP to take a flying f!ck off the Steel Pier (or what’s left of it) in Atlantic City, NJ.



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13 Sep 2020, 2:33 am

I'm sorry you feel that way. :(

This is a support forum with good purpose, but sometimes the members belittle each other's problems. I've been a target of that many times too, and I fear that I've come across as belittleling sometimes as well. That's why I try to keep from commenting on topics that I don't share a similiar experience with or don't have any concrete advice on.

I had a time I took a rather long break from here, mostly due to the belittleling, but I came back. Maybe we'll see you around again some day, too.



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13 Sep 2020, 9:55 pm

WP is supposed to be an online safe zone for people afflicted by a condition or disorder that is difficult to diagnose, understand, or treat.
People come here for someone to talk to, for support and acceptance.
The hostility, criticism, condemnation, and insults are running rampant throughout WP. There is only so much the mods can do to enforce rules and rein in some of our more angry and aggressive members.
Seems to me, reading and re-reading posts, if you do not like the members of WP, if you disagree with most opinions posted here, if you feel a personal insult is an appropriate response to a viewpoint, then perhaps find a different website to post on.
WP members are frequently people who have already HAD lack of acceptance and deliberately hurt feelings.
No one knows how ANYONE here feels, but no one comes here to be criticized.
We do not need our feelings hurt here, too.
We get enough of it already.
Short Version:
Be nice or leave.
Please.


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13 Sep 2020, 9:58 pm

I'm sorry to hear that. If you're upset about something, best thing to do is post about it in the haven. People can only support you in what you're going through and can't accuse you of things here.

With that said, if people are accusing you of faking emotions in any spot on this site, please reach out to me personally. I'll make sure that gets stopped. it isn't right


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21 Sep 2020, 8:57 pm

I am back you guys, I couldn't stay away. Thanks for the support.


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21 Sep 2020, 10:11 pm

League_Girl wrote:
I am back you guys, I couldn't stay away. Thanks for the support.


Fnord: "They always come back." 8)


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"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Humour is not meant to be taken seriously, yet many pervert its intent.
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21 Sep 2020, 10:34 pm

Pepe wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
I am back you guys, I couldn't stay away. Thanks for the support.


Fnord: "They always come back." 8)



I love that line of his. So disappointing he didn't give me that support. :lol:


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21 Sep 2020, 10:48 pm

League_Girl wrote:
Pepe wrote:
League_Girl wrote:
I am back you guys, I couldn't stay away. Thanks for the support.


Fnord: "They always come back." 8)



I love that line of his. So disappointing he didn't give me that support. :lol:


A compliment and a rebuke at the same time! 8O
That's "my" girl. :mrgreen:


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Laughter is the best medicine. Age-appropriate behaviour is an arbitrary NT social construct.
Don't tell me white lies. Gaslight me at your peril. Don't give me your bad attitude. Hypnosis, psychosis. Tomarto, tomayto. There are *4* lights. Honey badger.
If I'm so bad, pass me by. ;)


And one more thing,


"A stranger is a friend gang-stalker you haven't met yet." Humour is not meant to be taken seriously, yet many pervert its intent.
Truth may be inconvenient but it is never politically incorrect...The Oracle of Truth has spoken...8)


I luv KFC!