I don't know if what I did was right or wrong

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Pepe
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21 Oct 2020, 6:00 pm

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

FeelLikeAnAlien wrote:

The_Face_of_Boo wrote:

^ Yes you will regret those actions.

I did something similar to the one who cheated on me, felt good at first but not so later on.

do you have an opinion on what is the best way forward

To “shut down“ everything from him; otherwise you would be sucked into a dark abyss of self loathing and rage.

Very good advice.

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21 Oct 2020, 6:37 pm

FeelLikeAnAlien wrote:

I just ended the relationship and told him that I never want us to talk again (not sure if that's true, I just know that I feel uncomfortable every time we talk) He said he wont get over it and that he'll be sad because he formed a connection with me

I regret letting him into my life and I can't take anything I said to him back and I don't trust him with my information but it's too late because he already has it

I wanted things to work out between us which is why I agreed to be with him in the first place so I'm not sure if there's something I can do or say to turn things around and fix everything

I dont know what to do, should I go through with what I said

It's hard to be the one to walk away but you did well. You may have some points in the coming days, weeks, or months, where you second guess yourself but trust in your decision.

At that stage in the relationship there's nothing that can be done to mend things. This is particularly true when you have someone like this boy, who isn't invested in a healthy relationship. I know it's cheesey and sometimes hard to believe, but you will find someone new.

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22 Oct 2020, 3:38 am

AuroraBorealisGazer wrote:

FeelLikeAnAlien wrote:

Now that I've ended the relationship he seems interested in trying to talk about things and even sent me ANOTHER follow request (he keeps sending them and I keep rejecting) but I've just said ''Nothing matters anymore, and I'm done caring.''

I believe I'll find someone else xD

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