Jiheisho wrote:
dragonsanddemons wrote:
Funny, the attention I usually get from my diagnosis is negative. Anyone who pretends to be on the autism spectrum ought to have to spend a day, or even just an hour, actually being so, and not being mild enough for it to not be obvious.
It is a bit more complicated than that. I spent 54 years not knowing I was autistic. Yet, it was causing me significant problems. When I suggested it to someone that I was autistic, it was flat out rejected.
But I agree that only the movie is autism "cute." And certainly the popular impression of being "a little bit autistic" is not a help.
I didn’t mean to imply that it isn’t difficult to have autism that isn’t obvious, sorry if it came across that way. I just wonder how cool they’d think it was when just about everyone they meet treats them like they’re children and/or significantly intellectually impaired (not meaning to imply that there’s anything wrong with actually being so, mind) because it’s obvious at a glance that they have a developmental disorder of some kind.
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