08 Nov 2020, 6:07 am
The_Face_of_Boo
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08 Nov 2020, 6:58 am
08 Nov 2020, 7:10 am
08 Nov 2020, 7:26 am
accountinglad wrote:
Since about September she would go out of her way to sit next to me in training.
The heart signs thing was a one off on a night out was very early on in the night after 1-2 beers.
She said on a another night across the table I love you followed by my nick name.Again she wouldn't have been drunk after 1-2 beers
I haven't really texted her much apart from asking how her night was after I left etc.
The other guy she doesn't seem to like in a romantic sense yet he is always around following her every move lunchtimes afterwork etc
The heart signs thing was a one off on a night out was very early on in the night after 1-2 beers.
She said on a another night across the table I love you followed by my nick name.Again she wouldn't have been drunk after 1-2 beers
I haven't really texted her much apart from asking how her night was after I left etc.
The other guy she doesn't seem to like in a romantic sense yet he is always around following her every move lunchtimes afterwork etc
Like a stalker?
08 Nov 2020, 7:31 am
accountinglad wrote:
Girl at work into me?
A girl that started a job the same time as me was always quite touchy feely when I make jokes. She moved seats in the office and sits next to me. When we have been out at the pub on nights out on one occasion she was making heart signs across the table and another night out she said she loved me across the table when I made a joke.
There's a guy in another department who is quite persistent on pursuing her. Lunchtimes are usually spent with me her and the other guy.
She left some crackers on my desk she ate some and left some on a tissue for me. At the end of the day she put them in the box for me to take home
What would be the best way to proceed? I'm not bothered about dating in the workplace as it is commonplace and although is an inner city company it is not a career job
my country is in a lockdown and we are working at home alternate days. We will only see each other one day a week. i was thinking about ordering takeout and eating with her in the cafeteria as its the best i can do for now.i eat with her most days anyway so is nothing unusual but would buy the food .
A girl that started a job the same time as me was always quite touchy feely when I make jokes. She moved seats in the office and sits next to me. When we have been out at the pub on nights out on one occasion she was making heart signs across the table and another night out she said she loved me across the table when I made a joke.
There's a guy in another department who is quite persistent on pursuing her. Lunchtimes are usually spent with me her and the other guy.
She left some crackers on my desk she ate some and left some on a tissue for me. At the end of the day she put them in the box for me to take home
What would be the best way to proceed? I'm not bothered about dating in the workplace as it is commonplace and although is an inner city company it is not a career job
my country is in a lockdown and we are working at home alternate days. We will only see each other one day a week. i was thinking about ordering takeout and eating with her in the cafeteria as its the best i can do for now.i eat with her most days anyway so is nothing unusual but would buy the food .
It sounds extremely promising.
When are you going to invite her on a proper date?
You have the green light from her.
08 Nov 2020, 8:00 am
Pepe wrote:
accountinglad wrote:
Girl at work into me?
A girl that started a job the same time as me was always quite touchy feely when I make jokes. She moved seats in the office and sits next to me. When we have been out at the pub on nights out on one occasion she was making heart signs across the table and another night out she said she loved me across the table when I made a joke.
There's a guy in another department who is quite persistent on pursuing her. Lunchtimes are usually spent with me her and the other guy.
She left some crackers on my desk she ate some and left some on a tissue for me. At the end of the day she put them in the box for me to take home
What would be the best way to proceed? I'm not bothered about dating in the workplace as it is commonplace and although is an inner city company it is not a career job
my country is in a lockdown and we are working at home alternate days. We will only see each other one day a week. i was thinking about ordering takeout and eating with her in the cafeteria as its the best i can do for now.i eat with her most days anyway so is nothing unusual but would buy the food .
A girl that started a job the same time as me was always quite touchy feely when I make jokes. She moved seats in the office and sits next to me. When we have been out at the pub on nights out on one occasion she was making heart signs across the table and another night out she said she loved me across the table when I made a joke.
There's a guy in another department who is quite persistent on pursuing her. Lunchtimes are usually spent with me her and the other guy.
She left some crackers on my desk she ate some and left some on a tissue for me. At the end of the day she put them in the box for me to take home
What would be the best way to proceed? I'm not bothered about dating in the workplace as it is commonplace and although is an inner city company it is not a career job
my country is in a lockdown and we are working at home alternate days. We will only see each other one day a week. i was thinking about ordering takeout and eating with her in the cafeteria as its the best i can do for now.i eat with her most days anyway so is nothing unusual but would buy the food .
It sounds extremely promising.
When are you going to invite her on a proper date?
You have the green light from her.
My country is currently in lockdown. My current working arrangements will mean I only see her one day a week. I plan to order some takeout and eat with her. Her birthday is the first day lockdown eases in December if we ever get out of lockdown will try to go to a bar and maybe dinner afterwards.
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08 Nov 2020, 8:49 am
08 Nov 2020, 8:54 am
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Go text her.
I have no idea what to say
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08 Nov 2020, 10:58 am
accountinglad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Go text her.
I have no idea what to say
Just start with Good morning/evening, whatever...
08 Nov 2020, 11:24 am
08 Nov 2020, 12:33 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
accountinglad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Go text her.
I have no idea what to say
Just start with Good morning/evening, whatever...
Will say something like i miss her while WFH and go from there.
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08 Nov 2020, 1:03 pm
accountinglad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
accountinglad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Go text her.
I have no idea what to say
Just start with Good morning/evening, whatever...
Will say something like i miss her while WFH and go from there.
Just say Good morning/evening.
10 Nov 2020, 3:09 pm
10 Nov 2020, 10:48 pm
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
accountinglad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
accountinglad wrote:
The_Face_of_Boo wrote:
Go text her.
I have no idea what to say
Just start with Good morning/evening, whatever...
Will say something like i miss her while WFH and go from there.
Just say Good morning/evening.
Boo is the expert blobby fish, on dating.
I'd take his advice.
10 Nov 2020, 10:49 pm
accountinglad wrote:
What's the best way of telling her I like her?
I was thinking of just telling her over lunch or just when going out of the office downstairs for coffee and a smoke.
I was thinking of just telling her over lunch or just when going out of the office downstairs for coffee and a smoke.
Take it slow, is my best advice.
Hopefully, she will open up to you too.
13 Nov 2020, 7:02 pm
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