16 years old autistic son puberty and behavior

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My 16 years old autistic son keep watching cartoons like Barney, Sesame Street and Elmo and then imitates them on every occasion. He is totally obsess with them. For example he will take a cookie and eat them like Cookie Monster or pretending hi is Elmo or Groover. He is doing this everware and each time we try to stop or control this behavior he is getting very upset and start yealing, shouting or making other unproperate sounds, lately even aggressive (puberty is not helping).
We try everything for him to stop watching this. We block all this words on the google or other browser but he always finding a different way to watch this on the computer or tablet.
When we shut down internet he is recording himself on the tablet and then keep watching this video over and over and when we taking his devices away he becomes very aggressive.
Yes, we are trying redirect him each time when this bad episode happened but this work only for a short time.
Did anybody have same problem and maybe someone have idea how to make him stop watching these videos?
We will appreciate any idea
Thanks,
M&M

It sounds like you're saying that these shows are his special interests, yes? From your post I'm not clear on why you do not want him watching them. Please provide further explanation on why you believe they are negatively impacting him.

The person who started this thread, apparently, thinks this kid is too old to watch Barney and Sesame Street.

I say: let the kid enjoy himself.

If he's destroying people's houses----and your own house----that's not good.

What sort of educational situation is he in?

I guess he imitating Cookie Monster, and going up to people speaking like Elmo might seem pretty odd. But he's not harming anybody in doing this. I'm laughing just thinking about it.

I would focus more on his destructive behaviors, rather than on his TV choices.

I would rather he watch Sesame Street than destroy my house....

Seems to me like he is using it both like a special interest to relax in and de-stress, but also as a mask to help cope as by living in sesame street world he can mask the stresses of life.
It is a coping mechanism inwhat is probably the most stressful part of ones life. I used to pretend I was a car.

I'd be angry too if my parents took away my special interests and would destroy the house as well. If they're going to destroy my life by taking away my special interests, I'll destroy their house. Thankfully my parents were not "age appropriate" Nazis and did not care less if I liked something intended for a younger child.

LOL....I hope the worst thing my (hypothetical) kid does is watch Sesame Street and imitate Cookie Monster.....

I would say give your kid a break. I don't think you "deserve" to have your house messed up----but I do believe you should compromise, and allow him to pursue his special interests. It would make things a lot easier for all of you.

^ I agree that whenever possible special interests should be allowed. They give us purpose and joy, and are sometimes apart of our routine (which some of us depend on).

The programs are not at fault; it's his lack of understanding of appropriate behavior and social boundaries.  Be thankful he is not obsessed with Grand Theft Auto or other violent video games.

I know it's hard raising an autistic kid.

I was an autistic kid, and it was hard to raise me LOL

All I'm saying is that maybe you should "prioritize" a little bit. Allow your son his interests that seem juvenile. It'll make him happy, and it'll make you happy because he's not destroying the house because he can't act like Cookie Monster.

I'm sorry if it seemed like I was "attacking" you.