My appearance is very much like the man in my avatar, yet my wife still loves me and her sisters still like me after more than a quarter-century. Sure, appearance is important, but so what? A lot of a person's attractiveness is based on their attitude, too! If you seem angry, depressed, desperate, or mentally disturbed, you are not likely to romantically attract anyone, no matter how physically nice you look (unless you are wealthy and/or look like a demi-god/goddess). If you seem pleasant, cheerful, confident, or mentally stable, you are more likely to romantically attract someone, no matter how physically "un-nice" you look (unless you are penniless and/or are bug-ugly). All of these "X has it better than Y" threads are equally predictable -- the originators all seem to believe that their personal experiences are the same for everyone else as well.
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No love for Hamas, Hezbollah, Iranian Leadership, Islamic Jihad, other Islamic terrorist groups, OR their supporters and sympathizers.