Popping the question
It's a play on asking to marry. I was trying to be literary.
I'm not asking for a diagnosis, but these are what I'm basing my perception on:
Learned 2 languages in less than 2 years.
Monopolizing conversation.
Detailed knowledge of specific topics.
Trouble with hypothetical tasks like imagining being in fantasy situations.
Trouble with non-specific questions. Asking for more and more details.
Doesn't understand intuitive conclusions. Always needing more data.
Needing emojis explained.
Extremely little kissing, cuddling.
Wearing the same clothes, eating the same foods several days in a row.
Wants or needs me to be a bridge/translator to the way other people think.
Freezes from negative emotions. Needs a long time to process them.
Sleeps 12 hours a day if you let him.
Chronic loneliness
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...But you kinda are.
In my opinion those things aren't nearly specific enough. There are other possible things that come to mind from that list, but I'm not going to name them because I think it's better left for a professional to judge.
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@snail: you're right, I will wait for the diagnosis.
@nick: I did say that the breach came from both sides, but I was violated in a much deeper, more substantial way. So I'm very confused myself right now. I can hardly do the calculus of how confused and frustrated he must feel. I know it intellectually, but I'm a person too. I haven't had an issue with any of the aspie-like traits that I've noticed throughout the years, but in a crisis, having someone who shuts down, doesn't communicate, hardly acknowledges need for real change, but doesn't want to break up, messes with my mind too. So whether or not I want him to change, yeah, I'll talk to my therapist about it. I'll try to calm down my feelings and deal with the deafening silence as best I can and if I can't, I'll break up with him for real this time.
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