“You look like you don’t have any trouble getting dates.”

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I am sometimes told by elderly people that I should have no trouble getting dates. I was also heard someone at a mental health clinic say my “kindness” would win women over and others told me women get tired of “bad boys” when they reach their late 20’s and early 30’s. If only those things these people said were actually true.

I know this feeling all too well. It's so frustrating when your grandmother's friends and other female relatives frequently tell you how good looking you are but no women your age think so

Women do get tired of “bad boys.”

Kindness does win over the right sort of women.

I am not seeing it happen.

I will be 33 this year and it hasn’t won over anyone.

It would probably be a lot more likely to happen if you lived in Austin -- where there are a lot more women, in the first place, as well as more women you would be likely to get along with.

I apologize if this is off-topic, but I suggest you have your cell phone (if you own one) with you and record every single insult your mom says about you and to you.

Record just her voice and when you feel you have enough recordings,
hand it over to a supportive housing firm that can help you move to Austin.

Obviously, be very careful given how much of a maniac your mom is.