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Kitty4670
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19 May 2021, 12:00 am

I almost lied about my age, well my pic doesn’t match my age.



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19 May 2021, 8:29 pm

You want to be as accurate as possible with pictures (in both age and physique). Pics should be updated at least every 2 years.

This way you only get messages from guys who are interested in you and like you for who you are. Being dishonest will result in wasted time for both sides.



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19 May 2021, 8:32 pm

Minervx_2 wrote:
Being dishonest will result in wasted time for both sides.


That's not entirely true. Someone who only ever wants to interact online doesn't lose anything by being dishonest, if they're presenting as the character they'd like to be and getting the interactions they appreciate that's probably fulfilling their goals.

Being dishonest is a huge waste of time if you intend on ever meeting, or are at least open to the possibility of meeting.


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