I was raised to be a people pleaser. I have had to work hard to remember that it doens't matter if a person likes you, you don't need their approval to interact with them, do business with them, to do the things you need to do when they do the things they need to do. I was taught that everybody's opinion was important, everybody's feelings, everybody's issues and agendas were more important than mine. It took therapy and lots of practice to find healthier ways of interacting or responding to others, and to not worry about if the person in question liked me. See the self assertive bill of rights, as part of the book "When I say NO I feel guilty" by Manuel J Smith. That book saved my sanity and maybe saved my life. It is OK if some people don't like you and it is OK to not like everybody else. So may of us have had to have this explained to us after lifetimes of being blamed for everything that goes wrong, everything that causes discomfort, everything that happens that is not to some other person's liking. We are not here to please those folks... we can choose how we respond to them, or we can choose not to respond at all. Self blame, self shame, self hatred, guilt, frustration, fear and anxiety can all be seen to have come from early training to appease and please others and to put our own needs and thoughts and fears behind us to make sure everybody else is happy. We can learn new and healthier ways to interact. Hope you put self care and healthy self assertiveness first, rather than worrying about if everybody else is happy with you. Best wishes!