My fiancee just had a severe PTSD episode. Need help

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I need help and advice since I feel incompetent and inadequate in what I should do to respond to this episode since im still learning the arts of subtle and nuanced emotional empathy, expression and support. While outside the house walking an airplane began to fly overhead and my fiancee began to panic and have a severe PTSD attack. It started with a frozen mortified look, her eyes seemed to stare blankly as if remembering something, she began to breathe heavy and almost hyperventilate, and finally she just hit the floor and collapsed. We immediately called an ambulance and she's being taken to the hospital.

So a little bit of context. My fiancee is from Syria and her entire family and village perished from an airstrike from a war plane, leaving her orphaned and deeply traumatized. When the airplane flew overhead it must have acted as a trigger and before she knew it she was reliving memories from Syria all over again. It breaks my heart that I couldn't do anything about this. Ive only known her as someone tough and who was able to move forward, not knowing just how precarious and fragile her trauma was that even an airplane flying overhead would lead to this

I'm wondering what I should say to her when I see her again? the hospital she's at has limited visitors so I may have to wait an hour or 2 before I can see her, and I want to say the right thing without making her feel worse. I wonder what I should do

Just be there for her. You don't really have to "do" anything---unless she requests that you "do" something.

It's better for you to be there for her, and not do too much----than to do nothing at all, in fear of "not doing enough."

For you are "doing enough" just be being there.

Just be with her.
Hold her hand or hug if you're both okay with it.
You're both survivors. Knowing there is someone who cares and understands is the best she can receive from you

Sometimes all you have to do is just be there. Even saying the words "I'll be here with you" may be the only words needed.

As others said, what she needs she will ask for.

Here's my go-to link for helping a person with trauma:

https://www.helpguide.org/articles/ptsd ... h-ptsd.htm

Loving, learning, and listening are key.

Tell her you love her whether she's having a strong moment or a PTSD moment, and you'll be there for her.

Sometimes it is enough to wish you could remove the trauma. What she needs more than anything is to know you aren’t running away.

I don’t know either of you, but your posts leave me really hopeful that you will enjoy a really good life together. You want to be there for her. Your turn to pick up her baggage and carry it for a while.