Fiancee is currently changing and we will be out hiking again very shortly. In the meantime if anyone here on WP has suggestions for how I should draft my letter explaining to her what I'm dealing with please do share so that when I come back at night to my hotel and check WP I'll have some ideas on how to draft my letter
Have some positive stuff in the letter about her etc so it’s not all sad. Without going over board
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17 Jun 2021, 12:45 am
I confronted her today and told her everything, and lo and behold magz was right: somehow magically despite my best efforts to conceal and not feel she knew everything I was hiding. Sigh. Surely I'm losing my edge if I've become that easy to read.
She then smiled and laughed and told me "it's ok, you don't have to act tough around me". So much for being able to hide things.....
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17 Jun 2021, 5:48 am
salad wrote:
She then smiled and laughed and told me "it's ok, you don't have to act tough around me".
That's wonderful news! Hopefully, from henceforth, you and she will both feel comfortable being honest with each other -- which, in my opinion, is absolutely essential to a strong relationship.
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17 Jun 2021, 4:45 pm
salad wrote:
I confronted her today and told her everything, and lo and behold magz was right: somehow magically despite my best efforts to conceal and not feel she knew everything I was hiding. Sigh. Surely I'm losing my edge if I've become that easy to read.
She then smiled and laughed and told me "it's ok, you don't have to act tough around me". So much for being able to hide things.....