How do you get turned on a by a really goodlooking woman?

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05 Jul 2021, 2:36 am

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Oh okay. So if a big age gap like that is not a big deal then and it's fine, how do you get other people to see it that way, as opposed to raised eyebrows and people wanting to talk you out of it?

as dr. seuss tartly observed, "those who matter don't mind, and those who mind don't matter." capiche? ;)



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06 Jul 2021, 2:48 am

Oh okay. But if I introduce her to friends of mine should I tell the friends in advance to prep them for it, or no?



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06 Jul 2021, 2:54 am

ironpony wrote:
Oh okay. But if I introduce her to friends of mine should I tell the friends in advance to prep them for it, or no?

just how young-looking is your GF, anyways? 8O in any case, just play it as it lays.



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06 Jul 2021, 3:00 am

I'd say she is a 10/10 literally which is why I am very surprised she went for me. Maybe a 9.5 but at least.



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06 Jul 2021, 3:05 am

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I'd say she is a 10/10 literally which is why I am very surprised she went for me. Maybe a 9.5 but at least.

lucky you, you must have a lot on the ball. :wtg:



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06 Jul 2021, 3:08 am

Oh well thanks, but I am still trying to get use to it, since normally I do not get turned on by a woman that goodlooking. I still have to see if I can get turned on, arousal wise, by it in general.



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06 Jul 2021, 3:22 am

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Oh well thanks, but I am still trying to get use to it, since normally I do not get turned on by a woman that goodlooking. I still have to see if I can get turned on, arousal wise, by it in general.

don't be intimidated, think of her as 1] in your league, and 2]perfectly normal, not upon a pedestal. just think of how much fun you two will have. ;)



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06 Jul 2021, 6:39 am

ironpony wrote:
I'd say she is a 10/10 literally which is why I am very surprised she went for me. Maybe a 9.5 but at least.


Keep in mind one thing....she knows you know she's a 10....not many of us get this opportunity so may the force be with you and do tell us what it's like to taste high priced caviar.



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06 Jul 2021, 6:40 am

ironpony wrote:
I do not get turned on by a woman that goodlooking. I still have to see if I can get turned on, arousal wise, by it in general.


Maybe take it slow as see if you can work up to arousal



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06 Jul 2021, 12:47 pm

Okay thank you, I can try that.

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I'd say she is a 10/10 literally which is why I am very surprised she went for me. Maybe a 9.5 but at least.


Keep in mind one thing....she knows you know she's a 10....not many of us get this opportunity so may the force be with you and do tell us what it's like to taste high priced caviar.


Oh what makes her think I know she's a 10? I didn't think she knew that otherwise she wouldn't go for a guy like me likely.



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06 Jul 2021, 1:17 pm

Your 10 could be my 5 :)

Some people think Julia Roberts is a "10." I disagree. She's all right-looking.

Bo Derek is supposed to be a "10." She even starred in a film called "10." I think she was an 8, at the most, in her prime.

If I had a choice of choosing a "10" who likes Trump, over a "5" who can't stand Trump, I'd pick the "5," any day.



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06 Jul 2021, 1:47 pm

to quote smokey robin, good looking ones are a dime a dozen, try to find you one who's gonna give you true lovin.'



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06 Jul 2021, 2:48 pm

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Your 10 could be my 5 :)

Some people think Julia Roberts is a "10." I disagree. She's all right-looking.

Bo Derek is supposed to be a "10." She even starred in a film called "10." I think she was an 8, at the most, in her prime.

If I had a choice of choosing a "10" who likes Trump, over a "5" who can't stand Trump, I'd pick the "5," any day.


Could be, I am just going by my interpretation of what a 10 could be. But since I am not use to getting aroused by a really goodlooking woman, during sex, I had to picture someone else less goodlooking in order to satisfy. Is that bad of me though? I'm just trying to do what works, but I do like her a lot, just not use to the goodlooking aspect part.



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06 Jul 2021, 2:53 pm

well i hope you get used to the 10 attractiveness soon to get extra pleasure out of such.



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06 Jul 2021, 3:05 pm

I think I will, or at least I assume so. Another thing I am thinking about when it comes to the age difference... It was said before that the age gap shortens as you get older, but to me, it just seems like the gap gets bigger. I know a married couple for example, and the wife is in her early 60s and the husband in his late 70s and it's pretty obvious one looks very older than the other.

Doesn't the age gap widen when you are older, since when the older person seems to hit around 50, they start to look like they are aging five times faster all of a sudden compared to the younger person?



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06 Jul 2021, 4:31 pm

not always but it is true that long-married folks tend to start looking like one another. you might say they grow into one another. the president of france is married to his former school teacher! but she is a babe and three-quarters! :heart: