sport wrote:
No nerve but can't always control things that's why my wife has me use diapers.
I'd recommend Occupational Therapy for Interoception (body signal awareness).
You could also try Pelvic Floor Rehabilitation with a physiotherapist. They can help men as well as women with bladder / bowel control, pelvic pain, or any difficulties with pelvic tone.
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