envirozentinel wrote:
You clearly care about her if you felt guilty about what happened. You take love seriously and aren't a cheat. I'd say, you just have to be patient as she seems to have feelings for you but is too involved with other stuff (studies, career etc?) to get in too deep and make a commitment yet. I guess it will be worth the wait! But keep in touch so she knows you're still interested.
No need to mention anything to her about it.
Oh okay, but of course I am going to keep seeing her, if that's what you mean? Also, the reason she said she doesn't want a serious relationship right now, is because a few months ago, her previous relationship was an abusive one, and feels she needs to deal with the crazy things with that. But I guess I should have been thinking of that more, instead of being turned off by the 'you do you' line and retaliating with another woman because of it.
However, I just feel slu*ty because of it, but as long as I didn't do anything bad that I should tell her about.