So we have a neighbor that i am on friendly terms with. We talked about 5 or 6 times maybe and he got my number once.
After 2 years or such he messaged me out of the blue and invited me for a drink. we messaged 0 times before and he just said hi, are you in the city, do you want to go for a drink? In my country, asking someone you don't know well out for a drink is kind of weird, it is def. Not a typical first date.
Also He is probably ten years older than me, is divorced and has a son. I think we have about 0 things in common.
Truth be told, i just want to be friends with him, as i don't have many friends. But i don't think that is what he has in mind.
Basically i am very scared that i will be left alone after my parents die and i sometimes feel like i have to "catch up to other people" by having relationships. So i said yes when this guy messaged me. But i am pretty sure i have no romantic interest in him.
What do you think i should do?