Women about 10 years older asked me out twice in one week

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There was a women at my work who usually comes to my desk and asks questions relating to work.
I am not really attracted to her but i feel comftable around her .
She has asked if i wanted to hang out in my area as she visits there frequently on the weekend.
I am tempd to accept the offer and see where it goes out of loneliness.
i realise my standards are too high for my looks and i am too picky

If she’s your superior or inferior, I wouldn’t take it beyond friendship.

Otherwise, why not hang out with her?

I doubt she wants a pity date; if you don't like her - don't date her

If it is the sort of workplace where people ridicule or gossip, it may be best to avoid workplace friendships.

I would also seek work in a less toxic environment. (It took me way too long to realize that I dont have to tolerate abusive co workers)

How long have you been working at your place of employment
and how long has she been working alongside you?

It might work well.