I would say on an average day, I'm a 7. On my good and great days an 8-8.5 and on my worse days a 6-5. I think I'm pretty handsome, could use some exercise though. Personally though I prefer to let my "handsomeness" just show instead of putting an arbitrary number on it because to each person I will be a "rating" high or low based on their preferences anyway.
dragonsanddemons wrote:
I’m not pretty, but I’m not hideous, either. I used to at least have a decent figure, until I gained weight from chemo. I hate the shape of my face, and still have skin problems. Obviously I’m below average to some extent because plenty of men like women who are “average”/“plain” looking and no one who’s seen me in person has ever shown any interest in me, but not ugly enough to stand out as such. Precisely the place where as far as anyone else is concerned, I may as well be invisible. And since I’m asexual, aromantic, and asocial, I probably prefer it that way.
That's funny, I saw you(not face to face but video chat) and you definitely wasn't "below average" and you weren't invisible on this guy's radar.
There are things that you might have to work on to be your best self, but then, who doesn't(heck, I'm doing it myself!). Gotta get that confidence and self-esteem up and then go out there and shake it like a salt shaker!
(I'm kidding on the "shake it like a salt shaker" part)
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