How to attract women despite you have Aspergers
You've gotta be really good-looking to get by on just your looks.
A couple of yeas ago, my AS son's teacher said that the other kids often find him annoying, but he usually gets away with it because he's so good-looking. (He is.) I'm actually worried that he'll get into the habit of coasting along on his looks, because that definitely doesn't last forever.
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"Donkeys live a long time. None of you has ever seen a dead donkey."
You've gotta be really good-looking to get by on just your looks.
A couple of years ago, my AS son's teacher said that the other kids often find him annoying, but he usually gets away with it because he's so good-looking. (He is.) I'm actually worried that he'll get into the habit of coasting along on his looks, because that doesn't last.
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"Donkeys live a long time. None of you has ever seen a dead donkey."
Valid concern. Still, imagine if he were just as autistic and just as annoying, but also ugly looking. He's very lucky his looks compensate for his social deficits.
What is an airhead? They have air in their heads?
An “airhead” is someone who does not spend very much time thinking, especially on hard subjects. They tend to be very superficial in what they do think about. The air part is a slam that they do not have much grey matter to think with, as it has been replaced with air instead. The 1990s movies “Clueless” and “Biodome” have multiple examples of people that fit that description.
It depends on your personality. If you're a naturally talkative, outgoing, or extroverted guy, try meeting women in person such as bars, nightclubs, or social groups. If your personality is more quiet, reserved, and introverted, online dating is the way to go.
You have to remember that in our society, it's still the man's job to approach the woman and even ask her out. This means that the quiet and reserved guy (unless he's good looking) is at a natural disadvantage when it comes to dating. And for some guys, talking to girls online is much less scary therefore it's easier for them to get to know the girl and have a chance with her.
If that's what you want, which is quite a list, then that woman would likely expect something similar from you. If you can provide that, you can *perhaps* attract and satisfy such a woman.
Those last three lines were intended as sarcasm, by the way...
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I look at that photo and know I would not make friends with any of those women lol
You probably prefer hats like these:
Those last three lines were intended as sarcasm, by the way...
Seriously. Men aren't entitled to women's time or attention.
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Ok time to audit Fnord's love advice...
• Dress yourself in "mainstream" fashion (not haute couture, just "everyman" office clothes)....Single Aussie men spend 70% of their salaries on clothes.
• Bathe and shave daily, brush and floss at least twice daily....tick
• Earn a university degree, and find appropriate employment......tradesmen and plumbers and electricians earn more than engineers
• Take acting lessons, dance lessons, and music lessons.........our women consider that gay
• Attend religious services on a regular basis.......definitely not. Even our christian girls date bad boys
• Read extensively on many topics.......ummm nope, just focus on smile, make eye contact, nod your head often, and listen to what she says.
• Learn to drive, and buy a car (or a motorcycle!)........tick
• When a woman does speak to you, smile, make eye contact, nod your head often, and listen to what she says. tick tick tick
• Earn a university degree, and find appropriate employment......tradesmen and plumbers and electricians earn more than engineers
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• Earn a university degree, and find appropriate employment......tradesmen and plumbers and electricians earn more than engineers
I am going to college online. I have tried all of these types of places and still get nothing.
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