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christinejarvis21
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17 Oct 2021, 2:13 pm

There are times I like it when I can go do stuff by myself. But there are other times I get really lonely.



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17 Oct 2021, 2:53 pm

babybird wrote:
I love how negative you are. Its such an endearing trait. I'm surprised women aren't just falling over themselves to get to you.


I bet you think you're so clever, don't you? I'm not making anything up. This has been my experience. Every time I did have a positive attitude and made an effort, it nothing ever came of it.



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17 Oct 2021, 3:08 pm

dorkseid wrote:
babybird wrote:
I love how negative you are. Its such an endearing trait. I'm surprised women aren't just falling over themselves to get to you.


I bet you think you're so clever, don't you? I'm not making anything up. This has been my experience. Every time I did have a positive attitude and made an effort, it nothing ever came of it.


Just because you put an effort in every now and then doesn't mean to say the world owes you a favour.

Why would you accuse me of thinking that I'm so clever anyway. I only made an observation. It doesn't take an expert or a genius to see how negative you are. Every time someone suggests something to you your response is completely negative.

And where did I even mention that you are making any of this up. Those are your words not mine.

No one here is denying that you have had a hard time of it. People have empathised, sympathised, reasoned with you and advised you. We know what you have been through.

You've already said that it's too late for you. If you truly believe this then maybe it's time to start thinking about a new venture and stop obsessing over something that even you yourself think will never happen.

What else can anyone do or say that will help you. What do you want from us?



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17 Oct 2021, 3:11 pm

dorkseid wrote:
babybird wrote:
I love how negative you are. Its such an endearing trait. I'm surprised women aren't just falling over themselves to get to you.


I bet you think you're so clever, don't you? I'm not making anything up. This has been my experience. Every time I did have a positive attitude and made an effort, it nothing ever came of it.


What do you mean specifically by "nothing came of it"?

The point of positivity is to make YOU feel better in general.



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17 Oct 2021, 9:10 pm

babybird wrote:
dorkseid wrote:
babybird wrote:
I love how negative you are. Its such an endearing trait. I'm surprised women aren't just falling over themselves to get to you.


I bet you think you're so clever, don't you? I'm not making anything up. This has been my experience. Every time I did have a positive attitude and made an effort, it nothing ever came of it.


Just because you put an effort in every now and then doesn't mean to say the world owes you a favour.

Why would you accuse me of thinking that I'm so clever anyway. I only made an observation. It doesn't take an expert or a genius to see how negative you are. Every time someone suggests something to you your response is completely negative.

And where did I even mention that you are making any of this up. Those are your words not mine.

No one here is denying that you have had a hard time of it. People have empathised, sympathised, reasoned with you and advised you. We know what you have been through.

You've already said that it's too late for you. If you truly believe this then maybe it's time to start thinking about a new venture and stop obsessing over something that even you yourself think will never happen.

What else can anyone do or say that will help you. What do you want from us?


No. The world doesn't owe me anything. But it doesn't owe anything to all the people who have succeeded in life because they are not disabled in the way I am. I worked hard many times to get through school and to build my resume and apply for jobs, but still nobody would give me a job because my body language is off.

That's what I meant by not making things up. I could never get a job. I've been homeless multiple times. I was abused physically, emotionally, and sexually. I was in an emotionally abusive relationship with a narcissist who wore me down emotionally, and everyone turned against me and nobody believed me and I was treated like I was the abuser. I've been separated from my family, who live in another country, and I have had no social support or safety net of any kind. These are all things that really did happen to me, and they did not happen because I have a negative attitude.

Just because it's too late doesn't mean it's not still important to me. I still want to have romantic and sexual relationships with women. I can't find something else to focus on because I don't want to; this is what I want. Nobody else I know had to give up on having a sex life, and I shouldn't have to because the universe arbitrarily chose me to afflict with ASD without giving me any choice in the matter.

I understand that people are trying to help by giving advice and I appreciate that. The problem is that at this point it is extremely rare for anyone to have any advice that I have not heard or thought of before. I have heard all the advice and tried it multiple times, and it never works.

I don't expect anyone to offer me any magical answers or solutions.