How do I make this happen?
xxZeromancerlovexx
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The idea of traditional romance has always made me cringe. This includes marriage, formal dates, getting roses on Valentine’s Day and sleeping in the same bed.
I rarely get along with women. Due to how I wear my hair, dress and do my makeup a shallow female friend would nominate me for Queer Eye or another makeover show in a heartbeat. I’ve always preferred being around males who like video games and don’t shower me with affection.
Note: I’m not attracted to women.
Tl;dr:
I want a relationship with a guy but sometimes I feel so disgusted by formal dates and excessive kissing, I feel more like I want a cool male cousin or a twin brother from another mother. A guy I can play video games with, go to the arcade with or just watch a movie and eat pizza.
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I want a relationship with a guy but sometimes I feel so disgusted by formal dates and excessive kissing, I feel more like I want a cool male cousin or a twin brother from another mother. A guy I can play video games with, go to the arcade with or just watch a movie and eat pizza.
All you can do is make yourself attractive to the kind of person you want to attract, put yourself in places where such people gather, and hope for the best.
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You have to have people who you relate to like that if your life if you want to have a relationship like that.
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I rarely get along with women. Due to how I wear my hair, dress and do my makeup a shallow female friend would nominate me for Queer Eye or another makeover show in a heartbeat. I’ve always preferred being around males who like video games and don’t shower me with affection.
Note: I’m not attracted to women.
Tl;dr:
I want a relationship with a guy but sometimes I feel so disgusted by formal dates and excessive kissing, I feel more like I want a cool male cousin or a twin brother from another mother. A guy I can play video games with, go to the arcade with or just watch a movie and eat pizza.
When I was younger there was no shortage of guys who would be up for something like what you want.
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xxZeromancerlovexx
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I want a relationship with a guy but sometimes I feel so disgusted by formal dates and excessive kissing, I feel more like I want a cool male cousin or a twin brother from another mother. A guy I can play video games with, go to the arcade with or just watch a movie and eat pizza.
All you can do is make yourself attractive to the kind of person you want to attract, put yourself in places where such people gather, and hope for the best.
I tend to dress feminine and maybe if I dressed more tomboyish and wore shirts with cool logos, I could meet the kind of guy I want. It would be like advertising.
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It’s written in the ashes of the fire below”
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funeralxempire
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I want a relationship with a guy but sometimes I feel so disgusted by formal dates and excessive kissing, I feel more like I want a cool male cousin or a twin brother from another mother. A guy I can play video games with, go to the arcade with or just watch a movie and eat pizza.
All you can do is make yourself attractive to the kind of person you want to attract, put yourself in places where such people gather, and hope for the best.
I tend to dress feminine and maybe if I dressed more tomboyish and wore shirts with cool logos, I could meet the kind of guy I want. It would be like advertising.
I don't think there's anything about how you dress that might be holding this back.
Do you meet lots of people? Do you meet and know people of the type you're interested in?
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"If you stick a knife in my back 9 inches and pull it out 6 inches, there's no progress. If you pull it all the way out, that's not progress. The progress is healing the wound that the blow made... and they won't even admit the knife is there." Malcolm X
戦争ではなく戦争と戦う
xxZeromancerlovexx
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I want a relationship with a guy but sometimes I feel so disgusted by formal dates and excessive kissing, I feel more like I want a cool male cousin or a twin brother from another mother. A guy I can play video games with, go to the arcade with or just watch a movie and eat pizza.
All you can do is make yourself attractive to the kind of person you want to attract, put yourself in places where such people gather, and hope for the best.
I tend to dress feminine and maybe if I dressed more tomboyish and wore shirts with cool logos, I could meet the kind of guy I want. It would be like advertising.
I don't think there's anything about how you dress that might be holding this back.
Do you meet lots of people? Do you meet and know people of the type you're interested in?
To be honest, I live with my Mom and stepdad in the woods. I plan on moving to a larger city eventually but due to Covid numbers it’s not a good idea right now.
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funeralxempire
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I'm in a similar boat. For what it's worth I'd hang out with you if you were within driving distance.
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"If you stick a knife in my back 9 inches and pull it out 6 inches, there's no progress. If you pull it all the way out, that's not progress. The progress is healing the wound that the blow made... and they won't even admit the knife is there." Malcolm X
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xxZeromancerlovexx
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Guys where I live seem to get a false idea of me. I care about my appearance greatly but not in the sense other girls where I live do.
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