yes, I tried dressing for others when I worked in an office, over time I began to dress for myself. I discarded dresses and high heels, wearing stockiings and the like. Too uncomfortable!
I have wardrobe based on black, red, and white. I rely on black mock neck shirts and long tailed shirts with a band type neckline. I wear pull on jeans, have black and white socks and underthings. So much easier to dress when it all "goes together" and I don't have to worry about clashing colors, patterns, matching, and above all, its comfortable!