Am I right to feel this way about relationships?

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Jamesy
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10 Oct 2021, 10:04 am

Honestly if I never had an opportunity to get a girlfriend in my life I would shrug it of and say to myself "no ones entitled to a girlfriend"

But the fact is though in the past I have had opportunities handed to me on a plate to get a relationship.....well thats what makes me feel depressed :( .

I think the first opportunity I had to get a gf is when I was 18 in college but I didnt want get involved with her because I only wanted to date blondes :roll:



Do you think I am quite right to feel upset messing up chances?



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10 Oct 2021, 10:07 am

Regret over self-inflicted losses is normal.



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10 Oct 2021, 10:13 am

Fnord wrote:
Regret over self-inflicted losses is normal.



The last time I had an 'easy' opportunity to get a relationship was christmas 2013. 8O

I probably am not getting a lot of easy oppurtunities because a lot of women my age are married or maybe its because I have mostly been unemployed for the last 11 years.



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17 Oct 2021, 11:08 am

Why would you value an easy woman then?

Why dwell? Wouldn’t have worked out anyway. You were a bit vain but hopefully grow up to be a mature, respectful,kind man.