Joined: 24 Oct 2008 Age: 34 Gender: Male Posts: 8,020 Location: Near London United Kingdom
10 Oct 2021, 10:04 am
Honestly if I never had an opportunity to get a girlfriend in my life I would shrug it of and say to myself "no ones entitled to a girlfriend"
But the fact is though in the past I have had opportunities handed to me on a plate to get a relationship.....well thats what makes me feel depressed .
I think the first opportunity I had to get a gf is when I was 18 in college but I didnt want get involved with her because I only wanted to date blondes
Do you think I am quite right to feel upset messing up chances?
Joined: 24 Oct 2008 Age: 34 Gender: Male Posts: 8,020 Location: Near London United Kingdom
10 Oct 2021, 10:13 am
Fnord wrote:
Regret over self-inflicted losses is normal.
The last time I had an 'easy' opportunity to get a relationship was christmas 2013.
I probably am not getting a lot of easy oppurtunities because a lot of women my age are married or maybe its because I have mostly been unemployed for the last 11 years.