Can you tell when someone really likes you?

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tcorrielus
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20 Aug 2007, 11:00 pm

There are a bunch of things that I'm still trying to learn in order to succeed in the social world. So do you think it would be much easier if you could please list all of the signs or cues indicating that someone likes you WITHOUT HIM/HER BEING CLINGY???



21 Aug 2007, 2:35 am

I have no clue. Maybe Tim Tex can list them down since he can read non verbal cues.

edal sure did or is that clingy too?



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24 Aug 2007, 12:55 pm

I can tell when someone really likes me, but I can only tell if they're the one doing the chasing. If it's me, I just blank out all worry and remain in a calm state for the vast majority of time and perhaps I'm too busy thinking of planning well thought out strategies to know if the person I'm after likes me or not lol. I can tell if they definately not interested though.
So I think I can tell either way but more doubt if I'm the one doing the chasing, which makes logical sense... I mean it's human nature - you ain't going to care as much if one is after you and treads a wrong foot, I mean, as harsh as it sounds, it's not really your problem... but when it affects you, you're gonna worry a lot more no doubt and watch your step.


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24 Aug 2007, 2:18 pm

Nope...hell I can't even tell when I like someone. Well I like most everyone but not in the way you're using the word. So it just makes things difficult.



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24 Aug 2007, 3:49 pm

No, because people have constantly pretended to like me, and I can't really tell if someone is joking or not anymore.



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24 Aug 2007, 6:59 pm

not till after I sleep with them






















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seriously, no.



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24 Aug 2007, 11:10 pm

I can't, but that's probably just because noone really likes me.



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25 Aug 2007, 4:12 am

No, I can't. I assume everyone dislikes me until I'm told otherwise.



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25 Aug 2007, 5:06 am

There was a girl in one of my lectures last week (sitting next to me) who kept tapping my leg with her shoe and staring straight at the side of my face for 5 seconds at a time. I am not sure what this was about though I think she could have been trying to get my attention and let me say something first. I didn't like her though. :?