^^^ sound like my mother. It's okay, sometimes you just better off on your own for periods of time. And if nobody sparks that chemistry, thats just how it turns out.
I say it takes the same amount of time to get over a a bereavement, about a week. yeah, 7 days and i've 75% processed it. The bulk. then a few months, 3-6 for lingering sentiment. Flippant, cold maybe, but after a year after any traumatic event' for me the sharp pain has receded and is basically only a blunted memory. I can take things badly, can even get crazily disturbed with emotional upset, but its true they say time heal all wounds. I find so. Damaged and being rebuilt? I don't know about that. Pain is a great accelerator of 'reconfiguration.' I do know that. I guess i carry around all my traumas deep down, but things shift like tectonic plates, out of my awareness.
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AQ: 27 Diagnosis:High functioning (just on the cusp of normal.) IQ:131 (somewhat inflated result but ego-flattering) DNA:XY Location: UK. Eyes: Blue. Hair: Brown. Height:6'1 Celebrity I most resemble: Tom hardy. Favorite Band: The Doors. Personality: uhhm ....(what can i say...we asd people are strange)