Would you date me if I were at my goal weight of 140?

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https://www.urbandictionary.com/define. ... The%20Wall

"The Wall" aka "The Danger Zone" is referred to normally when a woman reaches her 30s and has not settled down and either entered a life-long relationship or is married. It is when a woman in a sense start losing the "advantage" that men talk about when talking about the dating market and it declines rapidly and her choices of men gets thinner as she goes up in age.

After "The Wall" which ends at about 35, women enter what is called "No Mans Land" where the chances of a woman getting any man is very slim at best and she usually has to remove things on her "list" of things she wants from a man and also when women hit Geriatric Pregnancy which means it's more of a risk for her to have kids.


Anyway, to revert back to what you said about "boring" guys. Most guys do not live a high exciting life, many are "boring" and work 9 to 5 jobs just like any other person. The average person doesn't have time(or money saved up for that matter) for vacations, fun out in the streets, and travelling or whatnot(especially the guys around your age group). Even the metal heads or goth guys still have to make a living somehow and while yes, they may do those things I guarantee you that most of their day is that job that they are working.

Even if you lose weight that doesn't automatically give you a non "boring" guy. I would recommend concentrating on losing weight(for health reasons) to benefit yourself first before thinking about what will come after that. And since you are getting close to your 30s start dating with intention of something(Life-partner, marriage, kids, etc.) instead of "weeding out options".

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What is cryptozoology?

Pusheen looks like a chubby TT.



I think I know where CreamHeroes stole their art style from.

The study of cryptids.

Absolutely!

But would *she* date *me* since I am more than twice her age?

Appearance isn't primary. There are millions of beautiful women that I wouldn't even consider dating because we'd be completely incompatible. For me, finding someone I'm mentally compatible with is much more difficult. Of course, in a sexual relationship, physical attraction is also necessary-- but that's isn't nearly as hard to find.

How the heck do you do that? None of my girlfriends have been even remotely mentally compatible with me.

There were some with whom I shared common interests with and could have long amd interesting conversations with but that doesn't mean they were mentally compatible.

I'd like to date Miss Zeromancer, since she's around my age.

Although, I don't think I'm her type for her....

Do you like older skunks?

^....However do you mean?

I'm curious what Zeromancer is after, besides hot and alternative.

Fear not, I am a heterosexual older skunk.
I was just "pulling your chain".

1. Thinks it's cute that I collect and doesn't have a problem that I have over 100 stuffed animals.
2. Doesn't pressure me to go outside of my comfort zone.
3. Plays video games
4. Hates bowling and sports as much as I do