Dear_one wrote:
The pain and loss sums are quite impossible for humans to calculate
Means of evaluating pain and loss are plentiful and apparent in nature. It (evaluating pain and loss) even occurs within nature itself and are well documented by science. I apologize but I'm not too interested in teaching or debating such a big topic. If you'd like to learn more there's plenty of information online, though I'm afraid it dips pretty deeply into several different fields.
Dear_one wrote:
...people who demonstrate great wisdom tend to think that what appears to us as good and bad luck is the invisible hand settling our accounts.
To the religious and superstitious, perhaps. I don't subscribe to those things.
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Thank you deeply for sharing your experiences. I don't feel so alone anymore.