dorkseid wrote:
I was beaten by my father when I was a toddler. I was raped in my home and on my school. My ex-fiance isolated and gaslighted and abused me psychologically and then dumped me and called me a loser.
But no woman has actually genuinely been attracted me even once in my entire life.
Everyone knows that women are attracted to strength, while predators always target the weak.
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My ex-fiance isolated and gaslighted and abused me psychologically and then dumped me and called me a loser.
I had something similar happen. The person didn't 'isolate' me, but basically played silly mind games with me, dumped me, and told a story to her friends which resulted in former mutual friends calling me a loser, and treating me like one as well. Fun.
I tried to cling on for three years, from 2012-2015, added the woman back on social media and begged her to be my friend on a few occasions, to try to validate myself and not be thrown away like a used condom.
I wanted to try to talk through our experience so I could get closure for the trauma she was putting me through. To find out what she was thinking, who she was?
But she was dating different men and just didn't see me as worth the time. She was holding me to standards that she didn't hold herself to as well, telling me not to comment on her timeline, and then debating everything on my timeline?
Literally dictating the terms like I was a pathetic kid, which I was at the time. It was all very humiliating.
Predators do target the weak. They should keep to people at their own level of 'power', really.
I'm just the equivalent of a small, plucky dog. I will fight injustices, but I rarely really do anything with malicious intent.
Just find someone who seems nice - you have a pool of lovely women who aren't necessarily as blessed with 'hot' looks to choose from. They can make you happy if you let them.