Positive social interactions and then... nothing?

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I do not understand the scenario.

Why not just make out the most of it?
Instead of spending time and energy reading too much out of it?


I do not understand because I socialize out of boredom, while not expecting anything and wanting nothing from anyone.

Friendships and basically any second rounds invitations are mostly just bonuses to me.
It's just not something I chase at any point of my life.

I also do not understand the need because I can only imagine what loneliness or social cravings actually felt like.



And the rest? Like community and networking support related to resources?

That's not something of an issue in my culture -- it's a relatively collective culture of apparently many kinships.

The norm here is that everyone's connected to it from the moment they are born...
And I'm not exempted from that particular rule.

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Oh yes - been there!

Has anybody become increasingly proactive (over the years) in better understanding the dynamics of friendships?

These discussion threads in the 'Social Skills & Making Friends' Forum may be helpful:

* 'Call For Video Clips To Encourage Social Skills!'
* 'Friendships W/People Receptive To Adults On The Autism Spectrum.'

Hi, I am reading this more than a month out and I am so sorry that happened. I personally think it was unprofessional of them to invite you to do something and then a ghost you like that that's very inappropriate and unprofessional if you ask me. That being said, it sounds like those are people who you don't want to work with anyway Because they are showing you how unreliable they truly are. However, I don't think it's your job to over analyze the situation I think part of the problem is they're poor lack of communication it could be nothing to do with you.


Now regarding the interactions with these people are making it sound like they're going to offer you another project do you recall how the Conversations went, because I don't know enough about the situation to really give you a full answer.

However, I will tell you about some unwritten social rules in any relationship. Luckily, you can stop talking to someone because you don't owe anybody an explanation. Basically, it's cool to lose your interest in somebody all of a sudden and not say anything. Additionally, people often ghost because they're scared of "Telling the truth" because you might hurt the other person's feelings. Then another reason why people start ghosting you is because you probably did something or said something that either made them angry or you probably did something or said something the opposite as to what they wanted. Therefore, ghosting is Called stonewalling."

Story of my life, too. Glad to see some other people with a similar experience, though it sucks.

Back in late 2003, a lead of a singles ministry was supposed to meet me so I could I baptized.

1. The first time she was supposed to email me and never did.

2. The second time she came to me and said that my email bounced. She told me that she wanted to take me out for dinner the next day. When I reached out to her, she blew me off. “I’ll call you later” and never did. When I tried reaching her cell, she never answered.



At the moment, I have a friend who has been drifting apart from me because he met other friends. He says one or two things but mostly ignores me.