I thought big eyes were attractive?

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Jamesy
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13 Dec 2021, 9:08 am

Why are eyes that are to 'big' in shape not always considered to be attractive?

I posted a photo of myself on yahoo answers and someone commented that my eyes were to big. I know my eyes are not blue in colour there more like greeney brown and I think most women lust after men who blue eyes.



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13 Dec 2021, 9:11 am

You eyes may not be too big; maybe your head is too small.



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13 Dec 2021, 9:20 am

I thought big eyes were cute, in a cartoonish sorta way.


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13 Dec 2021, 9:34 am

I thought yahoo answers shut down earlier this year.



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13 Dec 2021, 9:40 am

Big eyes are cute ... if you are a cartoon girl ...
 

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13 Dec 2021, 9:40 am

DuckHairback wrote:
I thought yahoo answers shut down earlier this year.



yes it did I think back in May



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13 Dec 2021, 10:01 am

Fnord wrote:
Big eyes are cute ... if you are a cartoon girl ...


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He's neither cartoon nor girl, but definitely knows how to use big eyes to look cute. 8)

And he knows about relationships too:
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13 Dec 2021, 11:24 am

I once knew a girl with a lazy eye that I found really attractive.



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13 Dec 2021, 11:40 am

Jamesy wrote:
I know my eyes are not blue in colour there more like greeney brown and I think most women lust after men who blue eyes.


LOL first it was, your are not tall enough, now it's your eyes aren't the right shade...smh...What will it be next week?


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13 Dec 2021, 11:45 am

Big eyes are attractive in women.

Theyre irrelevant (at best) to male attractiveness.

Or thats my understanding.



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13 Dec 2021, 11:50 am

Apparently deep set 'hunters eyes' are what's attractive in men. Yes big eyes, are considered cute on women.

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13 Dec 2021, 3:12 pm

theprisoner wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
I know my eyes are not blue in colour there more like greeney brown and I think most women lust after men who blue eyes.


LOL first it was, your are not tall enough, now it's your eyes aren't the right shade...smh...What will it be next week?


I bet he's got really small hands



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13 Dec 2021, 4:53 pm

babybird wrote:
theprisoner wrote:
Jamesy wrote:
I know my eyes are not blue in colour there more like greeney brown and I think most women lust after men who blue eyes.


LOL first it was, your are not tall enough, now it's your eyes aren't the right shade...smh...What will it be next week?


I bet he's got really small hands



How did you know I have got small hands?



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13 Dec 2021, 5:30 pm

I have small hands, too.

And rather big, sunk-in eyes.

Never had a problem because of either of those things.

People say things on the Internet just for the hell of it. I wouldn't bother to "listen," if I were you.



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13 Dec 2021, 5:49 pm

People like big eyes on women because it makes them look younger, like children.

The "big-eyed, innocent look of wonder" makes men feel protective and virile.

It's kind of a creepy reason, actually.

It's the same reason many people like blonde hair on women.

Blonde hair is mostly seen on children, and when girls age their hair normally darkens to light brown.



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13 Dec 2021, 5:57 pm

Big eyes also imply a state of innocence, or the quality of having no experience or knowledge of things more complex or unpleasant than what a child is expected to experience.  Thus, a person with big eyes may be assumed to have no evil intent or ulterior motive (whether or not they actually do) no matter what their age may be.