Autistic boyfriend shutting down?

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Summer_Twilight
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31 Mar 2022, 1:58 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I hope things turn out good for you both.


I have a good feeling it will and that he will come around.



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31 Mar 2022, 3:21 pm

Does he know you want to wait till marriage before having sex with anyone? Like you have clearly told him you and he will never have sex unless you get married?

If he is not fully aware of that, it could be he feels rejected because you didn't want to have sex. That said though not everyone is willing to wait till marrige and could be a deal-breaker for some people.


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31 Mar 2022, 3:28 pm

I left him a voice message in regards to the feet licking thing and said I would like for him to do that but we are not married. I also told him that I love him which is the honest truth. He told me that he doesn't want to do anything that would lead to sex at this point. Rather, he wants to give me pleasure.

However, I am going to talk to him about it over the phone or in person because I may have given him some mixed signals.



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06 Apr 2022, 1:45 pm

UPDATE:

Hi everyone, thank you for your advice about my boyfriend. It turns out that he wasn't feeling well last week and went to bed early. He was and I met up last night and had a great date night last night. We also decided to reschedule the special date night I planned for last week.



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06 Apr 2022, 3:26 pm

Sounds really swell! :)



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06 Apr 2022, 3:29 pm

kraftiekortie wrote:
I hope things turn out good for you both.


They did and last night was a wonderful date night