ironpony wrote:
This happened to me once when I was young and it was really tough on me for a few months because I really felt like I was in love. The way I got over with it is I kept telling my brain that it was being duped and that it's not worth loving someone who doesn't love you back, and you're being fooled, brain...
Eventually I just fell out of love and after telling myself that and it worked. Not sure if that's good advice, but I hope it helps.
Luv is a state of mind caused by a chemical reaction in the brain.
It fads over time, if you stop "feeding" it.
BTW, people *do* have control over whether or not they fall in luv.
It simply takes a bit of life experience to realise this Truth.