Jamesy wrote:
For example this one bloke at the pub who is part of my social group
For a second I was gonna say, like if it was just a random stranger it might be a different matter.
To answer the question, I don't know really some people don't think before they talk or they think it's just banter/something to talk about, like how some people will annoyingly say "you look tired", it's probably just some variation of small talk.
Yes it can be rude.
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