dorkseid wrote:
We've all at some point or another seen a short fat bald man walk up to women with all the confidence in the world and flirt with them. And the response is always: echww go away you creepy pervert.
Confidence in doing what you are good at or what others think you should do.
Instead of being confident in flirting - overconfidence on this point can easily lead to revulsion in the female community.
The first is to focus on yourself, not on acquiring relationships.
A lot of women are actually attracted to the former. If she happens to be interested in what you're working on. Or you have shown leadership in a related field.
This path also has lower superficial requirements.
Some very skilled/"premium" men can succeed with the latter, but that's not what autism is good at.
Sometimes what attracts women is "acting like they don't have to have a woman."
At least that applies to my culture.
(On the premise that they are not objectionable in themselves)
I've been seeing you doing the exact opposite right now.
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