Ahhh. A fresh thread to chew on the gristle of life.
dorkseid wrote:
We've all at some point or another seen a short fat bald man walk up to women with all the confidence in the world and flirt with them. And the response is always: echww go away you creepy pervert.
Firstly, not all women would be so crass.
Secondly, choose your
victim target wisely.
dorkseid wrote:
But when a tall handsome man with a sports car does the exact same thing, it is sexy and romantic and the women love it.
Why would this handsome rich
skunk man choose that woman?
Your assumption is that both the man and the woman are in a similar physical league.
Could this be why the "wonderful" spark of love has eventuated?
Superficial, but that is the reality.
dorkseid wrote:
People like to claim it's about having confidence, but that's utter bullsh!t. The man in the first scenario did not lack confidence.
Obviously, that man in the first scenario acted foolishly, by not considering/evaluating the situation correctly.
dorkseid wrote:
Of course, after being consistently rejected hundreds of times, anyone's confidence will erode eventually. And then people show up after that and say og well the problem clearly is that you lack confidence. No, it's not.
Do you always take advice from unenlightened people?
"Curious".
dorkseid wrote:
A friend of mine whom I've known for close to 20 years has confirmed to me that I did not lack confidence in my undergrad years. Yet I still never could get a girlfriend even back then. My problems have nothing to do with a lack of confidence. Nobody wants me because I'm an unlovable autistic freak.
I was "an autistic unlovable freak", yet I was approached on a number of occasions, in my younger days.
But I had lost a lot of weight, at the time.
Were you overweight in those years?
Most relationships are rather superficial, hence the need to get into reasonable shape to improve your chances.