People Not Explaining Things Properly

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Where_am_I
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26 May 2022, 6:48 am

KitLily wrote:
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It's the talking down to I don't like. Something only my female colleagues do to me.


I get that happening too. In nearly every single job I had, I got talked down to. Then in nearly every single job I left, people contacted me afterwards and said: 'that person who replaced you...they're kind of...stupid...Can you come back?'

Guess what my answer was! :lol:

And their comments made me so satisfied. After all their complaints, they actually had an intelligent, efficient employee after all and they didn't realise til I'd left :lol:


The nerve!

They're projecting. People who are secure within themselves don't behave that way.


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27 May 2022, 11:06 am

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The nerve!

They're projecting. People who are secure within themselves don't behave that way.


Yes, talk about cheeky! They got a very short reply from me.

It took me many years but eventually I realised that people being nasty to me is more about their problems than me being wrong in some way. I just ignore them now.


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