ironpony wrote:
She said she pointed out how now she sees that certain things I said and acted towards her, may have been influenced by the books as well.
... What do you think?[/quote]
It is a given that people are going to learn how to do social interactions from somewhere, from someone, there is no way not to. After all, you were not born knowing everything about everything.
What/who would she prefer that you learned from?
Perhaps she would prefer that you had learned from misogynist celebrities?
(and they do exist, there are articles about it)Quote:
... What do you think?
I think one of her bigger insecurity buttons has been pushed.
And as for me, I would inquire as to why the idea of you learning about how to do relationships from someone has triggered her insecurity.
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